Hi people,best solution is maybe going to psychologist i know and i have planned that. My main problems is: 1.I feel better when i m alone(all alone nobody around me).I don't say i hate people,but people in my surrounding just have unnecessarily behaviors and comments,they hardly say something nice to you,they brawl instead of finding solution,they enjoy whining. 2.I have hard time during arguments or brawls(When they happens for stupid reason or unnecessarily things)i feel like a moron when i m part of that but i m on job at that time and there is nowhere i can go,if you let them to say whatever they want and do whatever they want(i mean ignore them)they will behave like they have no limits.When conflict is about important things i have no problems but i don't like that. 3.When i m around people who have negative attitude,who always judge books by cover,who always think they are right no matter how stupid they are(Probably unconscious)i feel sad,i feel like problem is in me,i feel like there is no help for me.All that happens at job,private i avoid that type of people. 4.I always try to not start conflict,is things and reasons are not important i avoid conflict,but when anybody tell to me something that can insult me i will try to be nice and explain if that don't work i will tell him he is a idiot( if i m right in conflict). 5.Sometimes i get things personally,even if person didn't do that with purpose to insult me,sometimes even joke sounds to me personally(that is my problem which i must solve). 6.I care about people feelings,sometimes i put others to go ahead of me(i must stop that)MY BIGGEST PROBLEM IS I DON'T CONFLICT BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO HURT ANYBODY,even if they don't give a sht about me or anyone else. -I don't know m i emotionally unstable or is this all in my head but i must fix this if i want to live.