Encouragement Needed

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Deleted Account, Oct 20, 2019.

  1. So new to this forum, really enjoyed reading forums and seeing positive feedback from everyone.

    I’m 24, I’ve been off porn for about 1 week now and it’s not my first time trying to quit either. I’ve had a bad addiction to cuckold porn, femdom humiliation and I think it all stems from bad memories in my own life; being heartbroken, cheated on, bad experiences with women I loved. And every situation hurt immensely. I don’t know why I’ve been drawn to those categories and I’m disgusted with myself for getting off to it. It’s made me question sexuality and consider trying to live out fantasies which has ultimately confused me. But I know who I really am and I want to be clear again, I believe in love, I believe I’m man enough for a woman and I want to be treated well and live confident again.
    Recently my thoughts have been attacking myself and I’m sick to my stomach that porn has done this to me and I’ll never get back to normal. I’m a strong person and believe in brighter days. But being single for so long and dealing with many heartbreaks I’ve used porn for comfort so much. There is no doubt that porn has made me feel lost in reality with women and I don’t want to feel this way anymore. Sometimes I get down on my self, feeling all alone in this.

    Let me know if anyone has felt the same and has good advice. I will keep grinding one day at a time.
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  2. fedmom

    fedmom Fapstronaut

    There's a thread in my profile with a method for getting rid of femdom addiciton.
  3. heidelberg

    heidelberg Fapstronaut

    Hey Lionheart,
    Thanks for your honesty. I am right there with you, just twice your age. Porn is comfort. And an avoidance of reality. Dealing with reality is the hardest thing in this digital age. We need to support each other, as men, as human beings. I am looking for a group of people who can easily support each other when they need it. I am new to this site too, so I am not used to it. I have a hard time finding my way around in it.
    You're making the right decisions. Now, know that You are worthy of love.
  4. cbe1023

    cbe1023 Fapstronaut

    I am new and looking to get rid of this addiction just like you. Hope to see you around!
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  5. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

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    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!

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