Endless attempts to quit

Can I share a spark or two?

1. The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking. -Albert Einstein
2. Any change, even a change for the better, is always accompanied by drawbacks and discomforts. -Arnold Bennett
3. Change is inevitable. Change is constant. -Benjamin Disraeli
4. When you're finished changing, you're finished. -Benjamin Franklin
5. The price of doing the same old thing is far higher than the price of change. -Bill Clinton
6. The world hates change, yet it is the only thing that has brought progress. -Charles Kettering
7. If you don't like change, you will like irrelevance even less. -General Eric Shinseki
8. Change means that what was before wasn't perfect. People want things to be better. -Esther Dyson
9. Resistance at all cost is the most senseless act there is. -Friedrich Durrenmatt
10. If we don't change, we don't grow. If we don't grow, we aren't really living. -Gail Sheehy
11. Those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything. -George Bernard Shaw
12. When people shake their heads because we are living in a restless age, ask them how they would like to life in a stationary one, and do without change. -George Bernard Shaw
13. I cannot say whether things will get better if we change; what I can say is they must change if they are to get better. -Georg C. Lichtenberg
14. He who rejects change is the architect of decay. The only human institution which rejects progress is the cemetery. -Harold Wilson
15. Change before you have to. -Jack Welch
16. People can cry much easier than they can change. -James Baldwin
17. Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future. -John F. Kennedy
18. Faced with the choice between changing one's mind and proving that there is no need to do so, almost everyone gets busy on the proof. -John Kenneth Galbraith
19. Be the change that you wish to see in the world. -Mahatma Gandhi
20. Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has. -Margaret Mead
21. Your success in life isn't based on your ability to simply change. It is based on your ability to change faster than your competition, customers, and business. -Mark Sanborn
22. If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. -Maya Angelou
23. I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples. -Mother Teresa
24. The first step toward change is awareness. The second step is acceptance. -Nathaniel Branden
25. Change your thoughts and you change your world. -Norman Vincent Peale
26. People don't resist change. They resist being changed. -Peter Senge
27. You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing model obsolete. -R. Buckminster Fuller
28. Our dilemma is that we hate change and love it at the same time; what we really want is for things to remain the same but get better. -Sydney J. Harris
29. It is not necessary to change. Survival is not mandatory. -W. Edwards Deming
30. There is nothing wrong with change, if it is in the right direction. -Winston Churchill
31. To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often. -Winston Churchill
32. And just for fun... "Change is inevitable--except from a vending machine." -Robert C. Gallagher

Change is a part of life. The only real thing in existence in this world is endless transformation. I cannot say I have an answer on how you can change the way you want but I can guarantee change in one direction or another is guaranteed.

 

Why don't you make an accountability partner? then you will feel a sense of guilt if you fap.

 

I belive that masturbation is just our way (easiest but long-term destructive) to get away from problems in life, so my advice for start is to find what these things are and look for a solution. I think it's great that you look for an improvement at young age. I also recommend reading "Think and grow rich". Good luck and don't give up!

 

Bro do read this,
It got me through some strong urges.
http://husbandhelphaven.com/porn-addiction-withdrawal-walkthrough/
All the very best!!