Erectile Dysfunction Recovery

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Mithradates, Apr 16, 2019.

  1. Mithradates

    Mithradates Fapstronaut

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    My wake up call came when I no longer felt attracted to my girlfriend, and was masturbating because her life became increasingly busy. Me I stayed in the same place, in bed, after work, fapping. I didnt realize the damage I was doing.
    I got ED, and when trying to have sex, she noticed I had softer erections, she thought it was because I no longer felt physically attracted to her. This insecurity ruined our relationship.

    2 weeks in and I had morning wood for the first time in months. It was probably 50%. But it felt good to see the first sign of reboot recovery. Is anyone else dealing with PMO induced ED? Did you ever see a complete recovery? How long did it take?
     
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  2. Anonymous86

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    Masturbating to porn gave you ED? How so? Did your dick shrivel and shrink to a small size? Can you be more descriptive?
     
  3. Pati_ryu

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    yes there are plenty of articles in yourbrainonporn tell your gf you are having ed and u love her but its gotmonal problem like her period. so you need 90 day recovery. 90 day should be enough. just dont bring out this p or whatever fantsay world. but plz tell your gf about this.
     
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    I think it desensitized me, and made it so I could get erections by watching porn but not with my girlfriend. I would just have some blood flow, but not enough to have a solid erection.
     
  5. Mithradates

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    Unfortunately we broke up, thats why I started nofap 2 weeks ago. I should have been more open with her, but its too late now. She really isn't the one for me either. She lacked compassion when I did finally open up to her about the issue of my porn addiction, so I broke up with her. But yeah I will check out yourbrainonporn
     
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  6. Anonymous86

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    Do you get flatline symptoms? I think I’m desensitized too, and my dick is shriveled small.
     
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  7. Pati_ryu

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    oh boy..it means she liked only ur body not you...dont think shit like she deserved better etc.blah blah . who the hell breaks up when one partner is weak in bed. also i saw a video on youtube like ur story that guy was suffering from pmo overdose and become impotent and thus went through break up but he just kept calm.. and rejected this p etc...and finally got his sensations back.and now is happy again
    be hard dude you can have your life back.
     
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  8. Mithradates

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    Thanks man, yeah it was really hard the first few days, but I got over it. I realized that she was just hanging around for what I could give her. She didnt really care. I already got my mental confidence back, now its just a matter of dedication and patience. I cant wait to be healthy again! and this time I will find a woman that actually cares!
     
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  9. Mithradates

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    I did have a flatline around the time we broke up and the first week and a half of NoFap (20 days), but I woke up with a semi erection yesterday and today I got another semi erection. I am lucky my flatline seems to be going away after such a short time. I think flatlines are physical and psychological. My dick was never really shriveled, but it had 0 sensation for about 10 days, and was completely flaccid. Just try and keep a positive and patient attitude during your flatline. Also, ask your doctor for ED medication if it lasts after 90 day nofap.

    We need to rewire our brains to be with women again. So the first step is abstaining, then regaining sensation, then having sex with women. I think we are both in that first stage of just abstaining. Hang in there bro!
     
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  10. fadedfidelity

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    SO here and want to get other PA's insight on this. My husband has softer erections except for when we do a particular thing in bed together. When we do that particular thing, then he is massively hard. (The sex act happens to be something from the type of porn he likes.) I enjoy it a lot because it turns him on like nothing else, and he has a very hard and bigger erection, but at the same time I feel like he is replaying the porn scenes in his mind when he is with me doing it. I feel dirty, used, and like he isn't really WITH ME. Should I refuse to do that particular sexual thing anymore?
     
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  11. Mithradates

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    If its making you feel terrible stop doing it. It will make you resent having sex with him. Tell him how you feel be honest and patient, men get defensive about sex stuff. His PIED(Porn induced ED) is psychological, because he is capable of getting full hard erections when doing that sex act. He needs to really abstain from PMO(porn masturbation and orgasm), for 30-90 days and then have normal sex acts with you. He really should not be watching porn.
    You sound like a great wife btw.

    If you continue to feel used and dirty, you will both end up unhappy. I suggest you have a serious conversation with him and both abstain for a bit. It will make sex more intense when you do have it. I hope this helps!
     
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  12. Pati_ryu

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    well your husband is suffering from escalation..it means he is not getting turned on from Normal stimulus and .he on his own quit porn if you make him read about articles from yourbrainonporn.com because sooner he will have softer erection even while doing that particular fetish of him and he will ask you to move further lower.
    i sincerely wish for your happy married life sister. porn etc. ruin marriages and please motivate and support him even if he relapses to quit porn.
     
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