Erectile dysfunction

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Prmajd, Oct 20, 2018.

  1. Prmajd

    Prmajd Fapstronaut

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    Hello people!

    I have a question about PIED and other people's experiences.
    I found out a while back that I suffer from PIED and started quitting porn. It became better and better and about 3 weeks ago I was able to have sex with my girlfriend. We had sex every day, sometimes multiple times and my erections were super hard. But after 10 days of doing it regularly I started losing my erections during intercourse or wasn't even able to get it up at all. It feels like from one day to another my PIED came back.
    Did anyone ever happen to have the same problem or has any advice for me? My gf and I live in a long distance relationship and gonna meet up in 2 weeks again. I am so worried now that I'm not able to get cured. As an addition I started watching "arousing photos" and masturbated 3 times during the last week to "test myself". I know it's stupid, but my brain is stronger. I feel like I'm starting nofap from zero again and lost all of my focus.
    Any help would be much appreciated!
     
  2. SandsOfTime

    SandsOfTime Fapstronaut

    First, You had PIED. so how you get cured? Assuming that you were cured from ED and did sex but then again suddenly you get ED again with out watching porn ?
     
  3. Prmajd

    Prmajd Fapstronaut

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    Yes I had PIED. I tried to have sex with different girls and wasn't able to get an erection (November last year until April this year). A few months later (June) I came together with my gf and I was able to get half erections and sometimes cum whilst having sex, but most of the time I lost the erection during intercourse and had to finish myself off with my hand.
    From end of July until 3 weeks ago we had a long distance relationship and then, when we met 3 weeks ago, my erections were solid (as mentioned above). So I'd say I was cured. From not being able to get an erection at all to getting a solid one. But I don't understand why it became worse again. I started nofap in February and was never able to quit porn for good. But reduced it drastically and had streaks of 45 days and 3 to 4 weeks.
     
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  4. SandsOfTime

    SandsOfTime Fapstronaut

    First of all, Congrats that some how your penis is responding. It's not dead. I can say it's half dead. You still have chance to cure completly. There is 2 types of EDs. One is penis blood circulation ED, medicines are available for this type ed. Second is related to brain Neuro transmitters, no medicines are available. Let's focus on 2nd. Only cure is to reset our mind. I suggest you to take the advantage of the gap between the wedding event and work on your brain.

    In real life there is a chance your partner will be having a bad day or bad hair day. May be they are tired or under deadline. So they don't have time to do exactly what you want. And they have need of their own that need to be considered.

    In porn, all are edited out, photoshopped.they act like they have good time. No one consider their opinions and feelings. It's completely different from real world.
    So, take care your gf and spend time with her by not involving in sex. This is also plays a great role in your rebooting process. Girls need only respect and care (be a master in this and impress her more) so forgot about PIED your brain will cure it automatically.
     
  5. Prmajd

    Prmajd Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for your comment.
    I'd say it's the second option, too. I've never been to a doctor, but since my penis usually works fine during watching porn and we do not have any similar conditions in my family history.

    I will give your advice a try. Thanks a lot.
    Hope I am able to reboot completely.
     

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