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Erotic scene in the movie

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by muted, Jan 18, 2019.

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    I watched a movie in which a scene with a woman who masturbated with a dildo appeared unexpectedly. I turned my eyes away, but I heard the sound of orgasm and I felt that it excited me slightly so I left the room. Probably it shouldn’t cause relapse but I would to ask because I do not want to think about it if I have relapse or not.
     
  2. Not intentional, not a relapse.
     
  3. Retentionman

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    Not a relapse by any means. If you feel like you can't control it, just do what you did. Avoid it at all cost, bit for example right now I could watch such scene while staying composed, controlling myself, in other words not enjoying it erotically, just as an espectator
     
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    I am pissed off by eroticism in movies. I watched the movie and there was a scene with a ***** who was moaning. Despite the fact that I looked away, I saw for a moment how she looked and heard her moan. For a moment I felt excited. In general, I felt slightly strange... I'm afraid of relapse now. Fuck!
     
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  5. Reboot16

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    You're fine. Don't worry about this kinda stuff. You're going to run into it from time to time and see pretty girls at the beach, etc. Absolutely nothing to worry about. Just smile about the fact you saw a pretty girl playing with herself and move on. :) No need to feel like you have to squash that sight with a masturbation session.
     
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    Thank you. I’m tired of thinking about relapse. But I’m worried because reboot cost me too much (and I think everyone).
     
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  7. Angus McGyver

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    I feel you mate! That's one reason for why I can't simply watch many of today's movies. They are simply stuffed with so many erotic triggers, foul language, political correctness, and lots of other crap I don't want to take into my life. People are then getting so obsessed by these things that it takes over their mind and lives, hence becoming unhappy and unfulfilled if they can't get these things ASAP.
    The cost of relapsing (not only to PMO but to other former bad habits as well) is so high that going back is not an option at all. My advice is to avoid these modern movies (especially Hollywood movies) and popular culture overall.
    It will just make you depressed and going backwards in life!
     
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  8. ZenAF

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    I mean, if you can't even watch a movie without becoming scared that you're relapsing you are taking the wrong path imho.
    You shouldn't be scared of eroticism or porn or sexual thought. It's part of life. Are you trying to cut out all sex from your life (except maybe with a partner) or are you trying to quit porn? Not the same thing imo.

    This is just my belief, but I think we humans are built to become stronger and adapt to our environment. Our environment is filled with sex. So this can't be a problem, we need to adapt, even allow ourselves to enjoy it (no, I don't mean through masturbation, just enjoy it. So what if you get a little aroused, don't mean you need to whip your dick out.)

    Having a porn addiction decreases life quality, no question, and there are fifty reasons to get rid of it. But there's this mentality on this forum kinda tilting into the other extreme, avoiding sex and eroticism at all costs and I don't think it's healthy. Also not as a method of healing. You want to behave in a way now that you'd like to behave like the rest of your life. So pay attention how you conceptualize things. Just my two cents, not trying to tell you how to live.
     
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  9. BruceD

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    Listen we all have to live with everyday incidents. Most of us anyway. Stimulating material will come up out of the blue. I do believe that very quick bursts of sexual stimulation are motivating and natural. But in the bigger picture as far as rebooting they could be potentially be triggers. Tough one but I myself am trying to get the hell out of the house and do some yoga and meditation. Find what works, but yeah we have to deal with it.
     
  10. kropo82

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    Good. We all have triggers and difficult situations that might lead us back to using porn, and the best thing to do is to avoid those situations. But sometimes we can't, and we have to just tough it out. This feeling that you are dangerously close to a relapse will pass. Remember, you don't have to be strong, just strong enough. Posting here is great, we are all sending you the support and good luck vibes.
     
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    Thank you guys for all. You’re the best ;)
     
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    I watch a movie and a scene appears in which a man aim at the woman with a gun. It remind me a porn where Man dominate a woman and I’m little bit excite. I wonder if at this point I should watch it or turn it off and I thought I could go on because this scene will not end in sex. It’s like changing the perception of this type of things. It’s just my thoughts about that.
     
  13. I advise you to check sites like Kids-in-mind. They help me a lot with the choice of films.
     
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