Escort addiction

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Teddy123, Sep 23, 2020.

  1. Teddy123

    Teddy123 Fapstronaut

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    Just wanted to create a thread to see how many of you guys struggling with escorts??

    Like porn they definitely can become addictive and cause low self worth and depression.

    Was wandering if people can offer practical advice and support for this??

    Thanks for reading
     
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  2. Teddy123

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    Great thanks

    Sorry I'm new to forums, so I'm slowly getting to know my way around
     
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  3. Branchman

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  4. powell1

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    I think there is nothing bad in escort. It's a personal choice.
     
  5. Teddy123

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    Sorry man I'm sure you meant well but I don't want that link!! It's the thing I'm trying to avoid...
     
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  6. Just like anything related to this addiction. We have to go cold turkey. I had a phase that I went through. It was I think more about craving for intimacy. But you'd right escorts are paid to love you. So I stay away from them now. It takes will power yes and I've had strong urges to go find once after getting quite long streaks but I know that it is wrong and it will send me backwards. Keep walking brother. Stay clean pmo and escorts. They will take take take. Emotionally physically and financially. In time you'll get the confidence you need to date and find a decent woman. But for now we must starve out the lust.
     
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  7. Branchman

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    That is the problem that we believe that an escort will give us intimacy and love. But as one mate said here in NoFap, an escort is a pleasure giver not a love giver.
    We are human beeings and we need physical contact, love and intimacy. But an escort will hook you. So we must find to satisfy that need in a healthy and natural way.
     
  8. I've been running. That gives a rush way better than sex or fapping. It's clean to clears the head.
     
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  9. Teddy123

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    There are definitely similarties in what we're both talking about. For some reason we get excited and driven about bad things which we know is wrong and harmful for our selves and people around us.

    I've come to realise recently that I need to control my thoughts better. Very often I find my self playing a fantasy in my head which is damaging and sometimes the source of the problem.
     
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  10. s-eeker

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    hey bro u are not alone,congrats for that.Even I am trying to get out of the addiction.let us do it together.
     
  11. theprotagonist

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    I have slept some time ago with an escort but strickly sex since I'm single and was struggling with PMO. Is that a relapse or what ??
    I do that like 2 twice a month but I can spend numerous months without sex but PMO and it sucks more what can be the explanation here?
    and the struggle with HOCD is still messing up my mind, I watch movies and It comes around. When I have some good time with an escort I feel like I'm not enough satisfied.
    Years of PMO make my sex life weird as Fck!
     
  12. theprotagonist

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    People are suffering here !!! and you just come to do your marketing stuff with links to promote prostitution? WTF!
     
  13. emmanuilteleshev

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    To be honest I don't see anything bad in this phenomenon, if you have enough money for this and you want to have fun, than don't hesitate to do it. It is a normal thing and a wish of millions of men that are staying home alone or with their ugly wives. Everything depends on your money I guess, if you have them than you can have a lot of girls and make great parties. Otherwise I can suggest you to take a look at www.peepshowwien.at, there you will spend less money for beautiful and gorgeous girls.
     
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  14. blunt.ever

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    Pornography is a million times worse.
     
  15. s-eeker

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    hello bro i find ur answer quite interesting.But the problem is people are here to get rid of their addictions on the contrary u are suggesting them to reinforce their addictions.don't u think that's an anomaly!!!!
     
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  16. UrbanIndian

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    Blunt, i discoverd and started nofap 3 years back, (i had a PMO addiction from teenage to escape trauma at that point)

    the longest streak was 40 days when i started nofap, since then it was a journey of relapses every 4-5 days, until i started reading about "distractor Implants" just a month back and the book "beyond distractions' by Gary Douglas and Dain Heer of accessconsciousness website (AC) just after reading the reading the book and running the 'verbal processes' achived 21 days streak effortlessly. AC is about about 'energy transformation' this lead me to a Addiction Specialist from AC Marillyn Bradford on becoming addication free, attached 3 sample chapters, check it out and share with others. I had to purchase the kindle version as freed download not avaialable. What if this can give you a new beyond what you thought was possible in the NOFAP journey?
    Cheers and Be well
     

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  17. theprotagonist

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    thanks for the Books brother, Its craving scaring me and it really eating my mind!
     
  18. Mo1989

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    Its worst than PMO. Short term pleasure and leaves both your balls and wallet dry. Stick to NoFap no PMO for life be a lion not a hyena
     
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  19. Glenbudde

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    Don't treat the escort so categorically, lol
     
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