@need4realchg I saw your reply on my last post, I came to check it out and I think it´s a good idea for a person currently struggling. Fortunately I´m almost a year clean and have no desire to go back to that sad lifestyle. I do support everyone in here that wants to free themselves from this despicable way of viewing and having sex. I do believe though that not everyone here is looking for help and as you said, will want to cover it up such as a cocaine addict might say that it gives them energy and blah blah. If they so choose to fry their brain and defend it, so be it. The ones that are concious of the addiction´s destructive nature will find a way out, others who choose to find it´s positives will just sink in the quicksand voluntarily.