Escort challenge

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by need4realchg, Nov 14, 2019.

Are you struggling with paid-sex?

  1. Yes— and I would join the challenge/group

  2. No, but I would like to join too

  3. Yes— but not interested in a challenge or a group

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  1. GA93JDeereboy

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    Damn, porn is like a demon that makes you do some horrible shit...[/QUOTE]


    It can. Just get back on track. It’s easy to slip away after your second relapse and stay off course.
     
  2. Tryingto

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    Amen to this. And with the insight fresh in your mind, I encourage you to (1) take a look at what happened here, (2) make note of any possible learnings, and (3) do the next right thing.
     
  3. I wish you the best with your porn addiction my friend. This particular thread is for SEX addiction.

    Do you identify as a sex addict?
     
  4. Why do you say she wasn’t your type?

    tying your shoes suggests subservient ? Or motherly ? What caused her to do that? Before or after ?

    did you feel honored ? Respected? You mention like an emperor. How did you treat her?
     
  5. Envoy-ofthe-End

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    I have a fetish to have sex with ugly or average women that will be submissive to me (my appearance helps lol).

    From the get go she was going all out, tying my shoes was like the cherry on the top lol. Asian women are considered attentive but I never thought I´d be this pleased. She also kept complimenting me, like 4-5 times, it was kind of funny.

    Don´t get me wrong I love hot girls, the mother of my son is attractive. I think porn has lead me to lower my standards to be honest. :(

    Oh and instead of thinking about spending a lot on a hooker, I always go dirt cheap.

    (PS, I always treat women with respect, from a relative to girlfriend to coworker and all the way to prostitute, I don´t treat them any less)
     
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  6. GA93JDeereboy

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  7. Envoy-ofthe-End

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    Almost failed today again, thank God I was able to regain consciousness. Sometimes I feel this animal take over my senses...
     
  8. Will try to make your meeting tonight bro but in have my kids though.
    @Envoy-ofthe-End hang in there. You sound a lot like me. Although I can’t tell how much you are spending. You can share if you want. Can you imagine planning your night for that same amount what could you buy instead ?
     
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  9. heroesroses

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    I'd be more than pleased to join aswel for a support group network, sorry couldn't make today/yesterday (bad timezone/friend commitments) but I'd be up for next time.
     
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  10. GA93JDeereboy

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    I’ll be checking in here a little bit on the zoom
     
  11. GA93JDeereboy

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  12. I just got back to the house ; is it still going ?
     
  13. I went but it said the host didn’t join ;
     
  14. GA93JDeereboy

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    I was online but didn’t have anyone participating. I left after about 20 mins so about 8:20 est
    I can try another one
     
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  15. RDucky

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    Believing that you always treat women with respect is a delusion. Men who treat women with respect don't visit prostitutes. You could always treat women WORSE, but don't mistake that for true respect.
     
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  16. Generally speaking :

    How do you define respect as a woman ?

    How do men define respect for woman?
     
  17. RDucky

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    Probably the best way to answer this is to suggest you got back and read that letter from a prostitute. She said "You, of course, you thought of yourself as one of the nice customers. But there are no nice customers. Just those who confirm the women’s negative view of themselves."
     
  18. I am now thinking that I won’t be going anywhere for months. The fourth quarter of 2020 is poised to be terrible.

    Our country is considering adding the toxicity of rambling uncle joe to an already messy situation versus remaining stuck with the narcissist aristocrat.

    USA is stuck in a quagmire of uncertainty. CNN says Peace peace , yet I think more problems are just around the corner.

    for me to not travel ensures that my daily struggle will be free from sex addiction. But at what cost?
     
  19. Veritech

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    I am failing at this challenge yet again.

    When the lockdowns began, my favorite escort agency closed down.

    As the re-opening moved forward and some of the escorts returned, I called them again.

    It's been two weeks since I had sex with an escort.

    I am back for the no escort challenge.
     
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  20. GA93JDeereboy

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    well, thank you for sharing your experience. I know I’ve been there many times. I have lately been struggling in the mornings with sexual thoughts and stuff, some from past escorts. I will say it does get easier the longer you away from it.

    Welcome back! We’re in this for the long haul!
     

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