Escort challenge

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by need4realchg, Nov 14, 2019.

Are you struggling with paid-sex?

  1. Yes— and I would join the challenge/group

  2. No, but I would like to join too

  3. Yes— but not interested in a challenge or a group

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  1. GA93JDeereboy

    GA93JDeereboy Fapstronaut

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    Well, made it to February! Looking forward to seeing 0 escorts this new month! Whose with me?
    It's easy when on a binge to stay on one and if you fail you need to pull yourself out. I finished the book
    your brain on porn, wasn't bad, it highlighted a lot of negative things it brings. Be careful of what your mind
    may try to make something bad look good when you've been addicted to it for so long.
    Hope everybody is doing great and if you fell, don't be hard on yourself, lets move on and get back on target!
     
  2. Samadhi Pañña

    Samadhi Pañña Fapstronaut

    Uuhhh ... that’s a test. Don‘t let your thinking take you into arguing pro and contra. A clear no is what the addicted brain needs to hear. Nope, not in the next hour, not tonight, not today. The fun is NOT to fall.
     
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  3. Samadhi Pañña

    Samadhi Pañña Fapstronaut

    True, addicted brain makes bad look good. Never start that conversation with yourself. A clear, firm No is all that helps me if anything at all.
    No escort this month ... I‘m in.
     
  4. Samadhi Pañña

    Samadhi Pañña Fapstronaut

    @GA93JDeereboy and me @Samadhi Pañña are going for the No Escort February Challenge. Who else is?
     
  5. need4realchg

    need4realchg Fapstronaut

    Count me in. I’m pretty sure I can last 3 weeks. The good thing is it’s the shortest month of the year normally haha!
     
  6. Samadhi Pañña

    Samadhi Pañña Fapstronaut

    lol, true. Then let us come check in here regularly for accountabilty.
     
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  7. WilBil99

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  10. im_alive

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    me too.

    I managed to do January, not sure how, by fluke or just being skint but I have more money now, so February will be more of a challenge.

    The question is, alongside the no escort challenge, what are the things we need to do to build a life where we do not need to see an escort?
     
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  11. SLeepisLost

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    Count me in as well. Spent way too much money on these hoes.
     
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  12. GA93JDeereboy

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    Well for me
    I’m here, ap partners, learning info about this problem and also been going to Sexaholics Anonomous phone meetings,
    YouTube videos, and trying to meet girls as
    I am single and don’t have much experience with them!
     
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  13. Samadhi Pañña

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    Hey guys, great you are joining us in the NO ESCORT FEBRUARY CHALLENGE. We‘re the glorious 9 so far.
    @im_alive, what helps me is to be clear about the fact that however many I saw, see, would see, no one can give me what I am truly looking for. That is (re)connection to my true inner Self, my authentic power which is when the personality truly comes to serve the energy of its soul (said Gary Zukav, a sex addict himself)
     
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  14. ElendilThePrince

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    Good to hear the positivity in this forum!
    I was a little less active here, because i had a hard exam the previous saturday and the preparation consumed all my mental space. I'm also attending a regular f2f SAA local meetings in my city, and that helps in an unbelievable way. I haven't found a sponsor in the community yet, but i'm still getting familiar there, i think i will feel when the right person comes along and than i will ask for sponsorship.


    Also have a little extra money in my hand, so the temptations getting stronger, so count me in for the No Escort February as well, Gents! Hope you having a nice, productive and sober day!
     
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  15. Samadhi Pañña

    Samadhi Pañña Fapstronaut

    Hey, hope the exam went well. You are added to the glorious list hehe. 8 we are so far. Stay strong. g24h.
     
  16. Veritech

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    I have been through January without a prostitute so I am now in for February.

    Please add me to the challenge.
     
  17. NeoPhoenix

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    Checking in, so exhausted of work that I can’t even think about something else.
     
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  18. WilBil99

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    Clean for another 24 hours. Keeping February free from acting out for another day. Hope the same is true for you all.
     
  19. Samadhi Pañña

    Samadhi Pañña Fapstronaut

    Clean here, too. Yet cravings are around. I would love to believe that next time is different, better. But ... ha ... no it is not.
     
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  20. Samadhi Pañña

    Samadhi Pañña Fapstronaut

    Hey great, you are on the list.
     

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