With that mindset one would be basically asking a girl to be a cheap prostitute, because all it is about is sex after the date. Lmao, that's just being a jerk, really. From that point of view, of course paying an escort makes more sense. However, don't listen to that bullshit. A relationship is something different. Fucking an escort is not a relationship, it's paying for a service. Taking someone out on a date, you know, maybe be generous for once and pay for one drink or something is fine, just be smart about it.