ESTRANGED BECAUSE OF FAILURE

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Introjust11, Mar 6, 2020.

  1. Introjust11

    Introjust11 New Fapstronaut

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    It all started with hearing one vulgar word and going home and searching it up which has lead me into a loop of doing nofap on and off,of course not by my choice i have final exams close approaching and i am not even ready.I'm such a disappointment to my family.I'm that guy that gets left out,I am smart but after a binge of relapses i feel like a zombie nothing is clear.
    Its like when i watch porn i give up on everthing i believed and strived hard for.I urge you not to relapse your doing the right thing.
    But back to where I was,You see this isn't my first time doing it and i dont know how people stop i've tried stopping but to no avail since August 2018.
    So if you have any tips i would generally considered them valuable as how you got further on your journey.
    Also this isn't a negative rant i just need to put out there what my problem is so i can get help
     
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  2. IGY

    IGY Fapstronaut
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    I can understand how you feel. When we keep masturbating to porn it affects our performance, our mood, our self esteem and our relationships with others. But you are sorting this out in your teens, which is really commendable. Here are some tips from my own journey. Treat it like a large menu. So, just pick two or three things at a time like you would a meal...

     
  3. Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!


    First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:

    Getting Started Guide / Forum Rules / How to Use the NoFap forums/ Glossary/ NoFap Panic button/ Set up your day counter / Rebooting Resources/ About NoFap/ Support NoFap


    Here is just some advice:


    First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)


    Then secondly I just advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.


    Theres a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal. Make sure and be grateful for the help you received and give some help after receiving some. Invest in some people's journeys. We could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!


    Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal/log (in the appropriate section for you) and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.


    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
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