Hi, well I'm completely new as well. I'm extremely happy that I found this community. It is really comforting to see that no one is allow with his or her struggles. I have been struggling with pornography for quite a while now. It started as for all of us when I was a teen and continued until today. There have been ups and down and I was able to stop it for 2 years. But recently I have not been able to resist PMO for more than 2 weeks and its always the same pattern. Especially being bored, feeling lonely and being too content with everything usually triggers me. I know I have to change. I am married for 2 years now and love my wife with all of my heart and would never even consider cheating on her. She is the love of my life and there is no person in the world that is like her. But I'm afraid if I dont control this problem that I will slowly distance myself from her and not feel attracted to her anymore. I know PMO is damaging our relationship and Sex life and this is why I have to stop. Its time to arise from the dust and be a men that is faithful not only in his actions but in his thoughts and heart also!! I'm happy for any advice and experience anyone likes to share!