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Everything is about our emotions...

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by AlltheRageBackHome, Aug 22, 2015.

  1. As I'm sure you guys are aware, I'm always talking about our emotions and how important it is to deal with root causes etc...

    Here is a little powerful video below of someone undergoing emotional release therapy. The therapist is touching energy points and doorway spots on the client to help release suppressed emotions. She also talks about how all disease and discomforts in our body are ALL due to held and unreleased emotions (something you've probably heard me mention before too).

    Of course, if you do some emotional processing by yourself at home or something like that, it might not be as intense as what you see in this video. Everyone releases emotions differently as well.

    Anyway, this is just for those who are interested or may want to develop some sort of further discussion here about the soul and emotions.

    If you're curious or interested in this, it's definitely worth watching the whole video.

     
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  2. Temujin

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    I've been reading stories about people who go on ten day Vipassana retreats just sitting in the hall when someone behind them starts crying uncontrollably. As the practice is supposed to bring up stuff that might be hidden so it can be finally dealt with face to face. I think it was during the body scan exercises where they focus attention on different parts of the body. The idea being that certain emotions can 'hide' in different parts of the body and you bring them up when you focus on them for an extended period.
     
  3. Yes, my friend. This is true.

    The video below even shows the host herself being triggered into her own emotions while watching the healer work on the client. Link below if you're interested.

    We learn to hold onto certain emotions from childhood. Things like constant sore throats are to do with things like fear of speaking up etc... Every pain in the body is due to emotions. Because, in our bodies, we were not designed to feel pain. Of course, if someone throws a baseball at your head, you're going to feel pain, but any pain that suddenly appears in the body out of nowhere is all emotion driven and is not natural.

    It doesn't even have to be anything deep like childhood pain. Just anything that happens within the day should be processed. Boss shouts at you, girl rejects you, someone drives past you and swears etc... All of these unprocessed emotions effect us on levels we're totally unaware of.

     
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  4. CountryDude

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    Yes, I have witnessed this on these retreats.

    The idea is that our subconscious mind communicates to our conscious mind through body sensation. For example, people who are phobic will experience intense sensations when they come into contact with their phobia - this is the subconscious saying, "Hey, time to get away from this, it's dangerous". Similarly, when we come into contact with something from our childhood or a nice past memory, we will feel exactly as we did back then." Our subconscious is bringing the past sensation back to remind us, this is good.

    So, yeah we have lots of memories and our subconscious stores different feelings and sensations. And people can get intensely upset when one of those come to the surface during meditation. It is called "a storm" and considered a good thing, actually. That is not to say we should go looking for storms, nor think our meditation is bad if we do not have one. Most young people, or people whom have never suffered much life trauma, will sit really comfortably in deep meditation without passing through storms. You will always see a 16 year-old sitting like a rock, very peaceful looking with no issues. While an older person is getting upset or feeling anxious or experiencing unpleasant sensations.

    These sensations can arise at anytime during meditation or regular life (phobias, fears, yearning for porn). But yes, like you say, they are most likely to arise during the body scan parts of the technique.

    By the way, the teacher's advice is to focus on the sensation with equanimity (balanced mind, not liking nor disliking), or if the sensation gets too much then focus on the sensation of breath (while giving no importance to the unpleasant sensations you feel).

    Tolerance is almost equanimity. Aim for tolerance and equanimity can come.
     
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  5. sandwich77

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    I'm really interested in this subject. Just generally. I haven't watched the videos yet, waiting for them to download.

    I've been through a lot of trauma in my life, especially when I was really young. I've been kind of tapping into the common sense of trauma causing a person to disassociate themselves from their emotions. Because how else does a person deal with it? Especially when they have no control over what's going on - just probably period really.

    "Everything is about our emotions." Makes sense.

    I've been thinking lately our emotions are who we are. I'm so used to invalidating my emotions, thinking I'm broken, stuff like that - now it's all about turning around and going the other way. I think it's the main thing that's been healing me and keeping me away from PMO. Learning to love myself - especially the shadowy stuff. It's not typical in my life - or easy for me, and it's slow - but it seems to be helping more than anything.

    I always appreciate posts and talk like this - it's what actually works for me, because there's a lot of other stuff that really doesn't.

    Yeah! Good times. :)
     
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  6. IGY

    IGY Guest

    I have an emotionally unstable personality disorder or an emotional dysregulation disorder. Of course, I have the ability to be logical and rational. However, the amygdala can hijack the prefrontal cortex. When that happens, an unusual phenomena occurs - feelings become facts. The sheer intensity of the emotions I experience overwhelm my cognitive processes and what I feel to be true is true. For example, if I feel offended then you were offensive! So, in my 'world' everything is about my emotions. Argh! :mad:
     
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  7. TetraVaal

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    Hey this is great man! Thank you for sharing! If we want to heal this world, then we need to heal ourselves first!
     
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  8. Ah, I see, brother. That's very interesting. Thank you for sharing that.

    Although you label what you have, it seems that many people have this as well, probably without even having been officially diagnosed with it.

    I definitely feel that what you have described is something developed from childhood (as most things are). It's definitely worth having a look into your past. I see others acting this way quite a lot (in real life).

    It could also be to do with how our emotions get suppressed in childhood from our parents. They project a terror within us proclaiming that they are always right, when most of the time they were not. Of course, guidance from an adult is appreciated due to their experience, but most adults are crap at dealing with their own emotions. It's children who have mastered how to truly express their emotions, but adults shut them down, and it gets carried into adulthood.

    It's always good to feel through our anger and discover the root of it. We release emotions just by feeling them.
     
  9. Absolutely right :)

    The whole world is in the state it's now due to unprocessed emotions.
     

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