Everything you need to know about women attraction - 5 years experience with life hacks

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by sephhh, Mar 16, 2018.

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  1. ShotDunyun

    ShotDunyun Fapstronaut

    I'm glad to see sephhh is doing fine. I'm still at a point where I don't understand female attraction at all. Maybe we should start a Woman attraction 2.0 thread to discuss everything about it?
  2. Jal Say

    Jal Say Fapstronaut

    Wow! Nice man, you are so likeable!

    Well, I do almost everything you recommend, especially cold shower + wim hoff method, IF, mental cleaning and practice of being in the now are great and fun :)
    The thing that changed my life the most was changing my diet! Everything I've done that let me improve myself came after that.

    Ever did read "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle ? Great guy.
    Also Alan Watts may be really interesting for you, especially his Zen Storys are great to listen to.

    Do you know of the kybalion? It contains the hermetic laws, If not I recommend it, you will find a lot of confirmation to your thoughts and helpful practices for your increasion of wealth.

    Also Tony robbins teaching about the power of real decisions is also great to look into

    Don't forget and be aware that you are already rich and wealthy, so opportunity will arrive to increase your material wealth.

    And don't be depressed, as you said your mind or spirit has already all the power you need and girls like that aren't worth the grief. Well, grief is not worth it at all because it doesn't change a thing but thats another topic.

    You seem like a very interesting person, so any girl could be happy if smth of your wisdom rubbs off to them. Which is funny, because they have the same wisdom already in their unconcious mind

    Sweet journey to you and stay strong
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  3. unbeepmyself

    unbeepmyself Fapstronaut

    This is such a good thread.

    I have experience most things described in here.

    It's like you have some sort of positive magnetic field all around you that attracts and super charge everyone and everything around you.

    Truly hard to explain.
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  4. unbeepmyself

    unbeepmyself Fapstronaut

    No MrMurk do not ignore reality. Women are promiscuous creatures by nature. Always hold that in the back of your mind. This does not mean you shouldn't involve yourself with any of them... that would be silly.
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  5. MrMurk

    MrMurk Fapstronaut
    NoFap Defender

    Lol... reading that and from what I've learned now, I think I was very naïve when I wrote that... trying to live in a fantasy world. Haha. Thanks for the catch-up!
  6. Magic Mikee

    Magic Mikee Fapstronaut

    woow all those benefits from NoFap i was just hopin on losing my ed and getting some more energy from increased testosterone levels. Every person is diffrent but fuckk i hope i get those other benefits you listed.
  7. ArisePrime

    ArisePrime Fapstronaut

    Hi when you did your 90 days, did you relapse within the 90 days? I thought you wrote that you MO during one of the days.
    In around 2006-2008 I would do like 30 days of no ejaculation. I would masturbate, and then stop before ejaculation (Taoist semen retention method). That however made me feel tired the next few days, unmotivated, craving more masturbation/retention, blueballs... it wasn't the ideal method, but after a few days of no M, I would feel ok again.

    I agree with your post. I also had experience before in the past where after 30 days of no ejaculation, girls that I haven't contacted a while or those who had rejected my advances before,,,will start to message me and want to meet me....it's very strange. It is like once you have your semen, girls try to trick you to give up your treasure, and the Universe tempts you to release it.. lol.
  8. Were you asking me or someone else?
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  9. Writing this so I can come back to this page later haha. Thank you bro, this is truly inspiring
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  10. Reborn16

    Reborn16 Fapstronaut

    I read about this in 'models' by Mark Manson. The topic of 'what women find attractive' has its own chapter.

    Highly recommend it. After having friends tell me "just be an asshole" as the best way to attract women, the insights from that book were a refreshing alternative to faking my personality just for a date.

    2.0 thread is a good idea btw!
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  11. Man!!!
    Your post left me mind blown!!!

    It's so accurate, clear and simple. You pumped me up mate

    Good luck for the rest of your journey!!
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  12. sephhh

    sephhh Fapstronaut


    The difference between the greats and the mediocre is quite simple; perception. Whether it's Jesus Christ, Buddha, Mohammad, prophets of antiquity or numerous successful individuals throughout history, the way they perceived the world was the key to enlightenment and infinite love. Perception is the power within us to change how we view all circumstances and how the world views us back; seeing that various laws and principles of the universe suggest, "All is mind." Whether it's the idea of faith, law of attraction or hermetic laws our minds are in direct correlation to the world around us.

    So imagine how important and profound this statement from Wayne Dyer is, "When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change."

    I have discovered that nofap has allowed me to tap into this sense of at-one-ness unlike anything else I've experienced. With my knowledge and wisdom of success and failure of nofap throughout various times in my life, I am on my way to maintaining it indefinitely.

    I am pleased to announce that I feel myself flowing with life. I wake up at 5:30am and make it to my gym by 6am nearly everyday. Women notice me and several I am speaking to and each one of them long for a real relationship with me. I have surrounded myself with success driven individuals; I currently am building 4 businesses.

    I have women attraction in full swing. But to be honest, I believe it's in direct correlation with my internal flow. I'm feeling so good everyday. Nofap isn't the cure-all; truly it's not any single hack, diet or pill. It's a constant campaign of betterment.

    I don't want you to get caught up on this attraction of women; we all want attention and to feel loved, it's a natural desire. But there is no satisfaction in any of this if we are never satisfied with ourselves. Therefore, simply invest in yourself.

    I am far far from perfect; but I am strong, happy and a recovered porn addict. I choose everyday to be the person I am by directing myself. "Commitment is staying true to your word long after the mood has left." I am fully aware of my weaknesses and the more I maintain control the easier it gets. I feel the unlimited power within myself. I've spent so many hours, days and months infatuated with women attraction and attempting to discover the secrets behind it. It's so simple just be a good person and maintain the campaign of betterment.

    My words of wisdom is this; invest in yourself. It's the best investment you can make. Get past fear! Fear is faith practiced in the worst way. Get out of your own way. When you work on you day in and day out everything else will fall into place. When you become infatuated with what is missing in your life you become more desperate, more miserable and more empty.

    I choose not to have any day counter, it must be several months, I don't even know. Since it's a way of life there is no number necessary for me. I think some of you must be careful of the feelings of regret and failure you feel once you fail. Move past it, feel good and get back on track. Feeling bad will only bring more bad. Feeling good will only bring more good.

    Stay hungry and do better.
  13. Good wisdom, stay strong! God bless you.
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  14. Reborn16

    Reborn16 Fapstronaut


    Can I highlight this quote "When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change."

    Last few weeks finally getting out of the cycle of fantasy followed by relapse... Now investing in myself is the only option. Fears must be faced in real life.

    Thanks for the inspiring words man, rest assured you're helping others change!
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  15. F328

    F328 Fapstronaut

    Cool ! I’m on. Day 6 and each relapseim craving to be on NoFap more and more I no longer like fapping due to alll the benefits I notice I usually go only 20 days more or less out of the month lately the last few months , so I see the benefits umm I’m trying to go into 60-100 days it’s cool to see what semen retention can do it drives me to witness myself on NoFap but how did you go about 90 days or reboot ? Would you be willing to go NoFap forvever I mean even no orgasm while sex ? I’m assuming semen tension would be ideal for all men if it has such a positive affect either way it’s all mental toughness in a way but really surprised by all the good comes from quitting porn glad to see other thrive
  16. Sc8r51o1n

    Sc8r51o1n Fapstronaut

    11 pages of motivation to read.

    I return to nofap after 280days streak then 360 days of seldom PMO. Looking back, my nofap period was way more fulfilling than the freewill period.
    Nofap for life, nofap for wife!
  17. Reborn16

    Reborn16 Fapstronaut


    Can I ask out of curiosity, when you went back to occasional PMO did you notice a change in motivation with real world pursuits?

    Or any stand out changes between nofap and seldom use?
  18. Sc8r51o1n

    Sc8r51o1n Fapstronaut

    Hi there, namemate!
  19. Sc8r51o1n

    Sc8r51o1n Fapstronaut

    Motivation for going out and meeting new people is gone that is for sure. Actually after 3 months of fap + change of focus into kung fu.
    Motivation in work - still there, and i have results.
    Moved to own place after all.
    I started and stopped learning drums in the seldom period.
    Was to a kung fu competition in the same period.
    Got diamond in StarCraft2 for the first time.

    So in a word, motivation in escapist activities is there.
  20. Reborn16

    Reborn16 Fapstronaut

    Interesting so more motivation for activities that might not be as socially outgoing. We are social animals so that's reason enough to change back I guess!
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