I dated this guy for a month (we had s. twice too). 1 week after we had s. the 2nd time he sent me a long text saying basically that he did like me as a friend and thought he could go more than that but he doesn't like me in this way. that he doesn't want me to feel bad about myself, that what happened was genuine even if he would rather be a friend. first time i ever been friendzoned. we are both 27 i have bad breath again and i think the main reason for him to cut it with me was this one. so long story short, we hung out twice as "friends". first time was very awkward, he was cold, didn't even shake hands with me and didn't want any physical contact. That hurt me, that he felt disgusted by me when a week earlier we were in bed together. i went to a corner and cried after 5 minutes i saw how coldly he greeted me then he melted a bit more later that day and he looked at my chest several times (it was hidden by large jumper and scarf) even after i caught him looking there. he said stuff like "i bought these gloves there and i also buy underwear in this same shop", i thought the underwear comment was inappropiate if he wanted to be friends now. he was shocked i sat in front of him instead of next him in the train, but he didn't make any move then 2nd time was my bday (i really wanted to spend my bday with him when i was still dating him). he agreed, gave me a bday card and he wrote inside "best wishes (his name)". he looked down at my chest a couple of times. insitinctly i touched a bit his cheeks while we were at a coffee shop and he let me do that. he said i could talk about my exes. he tried to talk about a girl, i asked him if he was flirting with her and he got the message i was irritated by that He texted me after and then on Christmas I sent him wishes but he didn't look interested in the conversation. his answers were forced. when i asked him the gifts he got he replied with what he got and hours later asked me if i got anything nice now, i promised in this new year to stop chasing people but i would like to see him. i don't know why he said he wanted to be friends when from the last messages he doesn't look he is glad to hear from me. why he looked down at my chest but didn't want to be touched by me first time we met as friends. if he is still attracted to me or that is dead. he didn't even wish me happy new year. i kinda miss hanging out with him and talking what does his behaviour mean?