Exceedingly simple but true cliche

Wouldn't it be easier if u know what u want to be? And you go and be it?

 

Na I'm pretty sure it's easier to focus on what you do want in life.

 

Pretty good advice. Wish I had that told me before I figured out what I want to be.

Like if you know that already of course focus on that, but that's just not the case for everyone. And what people don't seem to get is that it's not something you could just easily figure out by thinking about things you like or some bullshit like that. You can't cure flimsy self image overnight. Yet usually even the most lost person knows what they would never want to become.

 

I'd rather crave to be what i want to be instead of trying to "not become something/someone".

 

I'm not saying that you are wrong.
But,
There's uncountable things I don't like and obviously I wouldn't want that.
So, I'd rather chase the one thing i like than run after the uncountable.
In the latter case you don't even know what you want.

I'm open to criticism.

 

What if she doesn't?

 

I agree. First you need to take out the things you don't want. Thus, making room for things you want. If you remove the things you dont want, then these things dont mess with your mind so much and distract you, so you can start thinking what you really want, and start adding those things in your life.