so i´m together with that girl for a month now (she´s my 1st girlfriend) and i´m not sure about if she´s the right one. she´s nice and all and we do have a few things in common but i´m doing a lot for her (driving her with my car), she´s got a 1 year old baby so we don´t have a lot of time when i don´t drive her. she would have to go by bus. when i feel bad (and i have felt bad more often in the last months because of depression) then she tells me she can´t take it and she wants me to leave. but when she has a down then i´m always there for her and trying to make her feel better. so i´m feeling a little used and i told her but she told me she can´t do much without a car and the little baby, what do i expect from her? it´s also not very easy with the child, i can´t do much with her in order to get to know her better. she doens´t have family anymore and my father likes to drink so we don´t want to give him the child even for a few hours. i feel like i´m doing a lot and i don´t get much in return? i guess expectations in a relationship are never good. i don´t know if i´m looking for advice (because only time will tell i guess) or maybe this is just a rant. thanks for reading.