Expecting all the help i can to quit for good! Hear me out please.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Dave.parker, Mar 20, 2022.

  1. Dave.parker

    Dave.parker Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone. I am 26 years old and addicted to this since past 10 years. I was very addictive when i was in my teens and early 20's but i somehow managed to control it. Like, i used to do it twice or thrice everyday during my teens but now it's once or maybe twice a week. The goal now is to drop that too because i think it's messing up my mind.
    I am at the phase where fantasies are the only thing i can relate to when i get the urge to masturbate. Like, my body don't even want to do it but the scenes or foreplay's i watched previously are stuck in my mind so deep that it tempt's me so much that it overpowers me.
    I think i evev lost real sexual values that a person posses, like how and what am i gonna do when i have sex with an actual person? All i know is this crap that i filled my head with since the past ten years!
    On top of that i don't have any friends at all in my life, no girlfriend either never had one. Not even online friends lol. So, u guys can figure out how difficult it must be for me, i mean the only people i am important to rn are my parents which makes me feel very lonely but still staying busy isn't a problem for me on weekdays it's the weekend's or holidays that gets me. I exercise regularly btw try to physically exhaust myself as much as i can but like i told my triggers are the weekend or holidays and when i am alone or when i wake up too early in the morning with the morning wood problem.
    The fact that i hate the most is all that porn videos and fantasies that they create in those movies are not even close to how actual foreplay between a couple takes place IMO. (Correct me if i am wrong) and i still watch it knowing all this information, this scares me too death that how messed up my mind had gotten.
    Somehow came to know about this website though, thought i must give it a try.
    HELP ME.PLEASE!
     
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  2. STICKWITHIT1

    STICKWITHIT1 New Fapstronaut

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    Hey man, another new guy to this site here. Same boat as you, I'm 26 and I find it extremely difficult to even go like a few days to a week without masturbating. Feel like it's totally just hijacking my mind to the point where I lose the desire to go out and have sex in the real world. Hoping like you are that the power of community will help me get through this once and for all. We're all in this together!
     
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  3. Dave.parker

    Dave.parker Fapstronaut

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    Hi man, glad to know i am not the only one struggling. Yes we all are in this together man, let's try to win it this time by being responsible and honest. i have an idea in my mind i don't know if it will work or not...Ok, here it goes i am planning on NoFap for this entire week now and ummm...i am kinda making a promise to the people of this community rn that i will stay on my word hopefully. If things go south i will shamelessly accept it and tell it out loud here in front of everyone. It's a small goal but i think it will help me and if i fail(i will not) i am already giving you guys all the rights to make me feel like a loser cause that insult will drive me to prove you guys wrong the next time i do something like this. I am a man who likes to take challenges from other people but not by myself lol. If someone tells me that i can't do a particular thing then that drives me crazy and i do everything in my power to prove them wrong but when it comes to porn i never admitted it openly infront of anyone like i am doing rn i hope you guys are getting what i am trying to say. So, hopefully this will work btw iam open to any feedback or suggestions if there is any other way of doing this better, thanks.
     
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