Experience sex

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by EnterTheMatrix, Oct 14, 2019.

  1. EnterTheMatrix

    EnterTheMatrix Fapstronaut

    271
    277
    63
    I want to experience sex but can't manage a girlfriend as i am doing engineering. But i want to feel it so bad. What should i do
     
  2. lvm

    lvm New Fapstronaut

    4
    3
    3
    I have the same problem. I'm really tired of arousal that is coming to me from time to time and by the fact that I can't just release it through fapping(cause Im on nofap)
     
    SparkySub likes this.
  3. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

    1,791
    5,054
    143
    You can't have a girlfriend because you are "doing engineering"?
     
  4. 12&6

    12&6 Fapstronaut

    53
    44
    18
    Thats kinda like.." I cant experience sex because Im doing law school".....I can see what you mean if thats what your implying. Think of it this way though-how did would be engineers do it before you? W/o fap? Monks? Soldiers in daily battle?
    Sidenote- space travel has increasingly grappled w/ the sexual urge more and more especially as we evolve towards deep space travel more. Interestingly enough they talk a lot of chemical castration as a possibility to lessen the cravings etc bc in a certain aspect of reality travel duration would allow enough time for conception and birth to happen- human beings will find a way to f*ck in the most extremly f*cked up conditions...were wired for it and to do so...so..dont beat yourself up) aside.....Im def not suggesting that for you brother but I would say find your inner monk. Channel him,focus, calendar your days and after a certain amount allow a release. Id make it w/ a woman(human being ) when you do though as not to flood(no pun) your brain w/ the wrong sensory over load when you do. I used to know a woman. My first reboot was tough,but after 90 she was very kind to me :)....and she became very almost scientific about it. She was a Godsend,and no she wasnt an escort-yet be careful bc the flood of emos is very real after prolonged time. After release- Youll grapple onto or be done with said individual faster than a cheetah on a nature show.
     
    Last edited: Oct 15, 2019
  5. SparkySub

    SparkySub Fapstronaut

    96
    145
    33
    Engineers are usually very busy, have lots to learn, are always in the workshop and need a lot of rest. I think he is implying right now his life is busy and he is unable to efficiently manage his time.
     
  6. Muphy

    Muphy Fapstronaut

    252
    10,131
    123
    Let me tell you one thing.. if you are looking for a girlfriend for sec then I am telling you you are making a mistake.
    I don't want to explain it further but with this you are going to regret things..

    But I know you won't understand because I also didn't understood things when I was told .. so I want you to have it what you want and regret it ... That's the way to learn..
     
    EnterTheMatrix likes this.
  7. MisterDirection

    MisterDirection Fapstronaut

    170
    262
    63
    Life is about balance, everything is about balance. Dont believe me. Focus on just 1 aspect of recovery and tell me how it works out.

    Everything listed above are choices. We chose to isolate or reach out, we chose to experience.

    I can applaud a good work ethic, but that's just making excuses for being out of balance and denial of some type of hang up. If you want to experience these things, make the adjustments to your time and resources to make it happen, YOU CONTROL IT.
     
    12&6, Protagonist and SparkySub like this.
  8. Everything comes with time. You have to be patient with your dreams. Only the wish doesn't solve the matter. If you want to achieve the goal, you have to work on it. It's normal. Dedicate your time, get respect, and time will tell what's going to be further. Normally, when someone shows oneself from the good point of view, it's appreciated...
     
  9. 12&6

    12&6 Fapstronaut

    53
    44
    18
    Lol- I understood what he meant Sparky and was quoting law students as well. Time is the factor in his way.
     
  10. EnterTheMatrix

    EnterTheMatrix Fapstronaut

    271
    277
    63
    Yes i cant give time for finding girls or managing them
     
  11. I understand you are busy but it sounds like an excuse. When i was 22 I had a job working 70 hours a week and still managed time to chat with women, and meet up.
    Generally speaking, If something is important for you, you make time for it. You have to manage your time and be disciplined, adjust your schedule if need be.
    For example, i reached a point where i was tired of being out of shape and lazy. But for years I lied to myself by saying I didnt have enough time due to my job, part time work, household work, family time. It was all a lie.
    Now I get up 2 hours earlier and excersize before work. Theres nothing else to do that early in the morning anyway. 6 weeks later my discipline is paying off substantially.
    Moral of story, dont make excuses.
     
  12. EnterTheMatrix

    EnterTheMatrix Fapstronaut

    271
    277
    63
    Yeah i got your point but i scheduled myself to study for engineering then to go for acting class and for martial arts. And gym , because i want to be a martial artist action superstar. So a girl doesn't fit into my schedule
     
  13. You telling me theres no women at your acting class or in your gym? Im sure you go to malls and restaurants on occasion, or the grocery store..bound to be women there. If a woman is worth your time she will be understanding that you have a busy lifestyle and she will respect that and work with you.
     
    EnterTheMatrix likes this.
  14. MisterDirection

    MisterDirection Fapstronaut

    170
    262
    63
    So you want be a martial arts superstar, an engineer and in a relationship

    I hope you studied math, those 3 alone are what 130 to 150 percent of your time???
     
  15. EnterTheMatrix

    EnterTheMatrix Fapstronaut

    271
    277
    63
    So i should find one from my acting class, ok
     
  16. EnterTheMatrix

    EnterTheMatrix Fapstronaut

    271
    277
    63
    I don't want to be an engineer but it's the backup if do not get roles in acting. So i am taking engineering degree not by choice . And i didn't get you what you meant by telling 130-150 percent time
     
  17. Get_It

    Get_It Fapstronaut

    489
    722
    93
    So it sounds like you're a college dude in college wanting to bang chics. What's stopping you from going up to a cute Co-ed, going out on a date with her and trying to get some action? I don't think you're in love with your studies that much, after all you're basically asking people how you can get laid. I just told you how.
     
  18. phwrancesco

    phwrancesco Fapstronaut

    1,402
    1,134
    143
    engineering?? so what?
     
    EnterTheMatrix likes this.
  19. Get_It

    Get_It Fapstronaut

    489
    722
    93
    Ask out that quiet plain jane in class that the guys aren't paying attention to. She may be looking for sex from a guy.
     
  20. Ah man, those are the best. Quiet plain janes or chubby chicks. Good stuff.
     
    EnterTheMatrix and Get_It like this.

Share This Page