Experiment: will you lose your sex game?

I‘ve been part of the NoFap community since February 2018. I used to be a heavy addict and I masturbated about 8 times a day.
The only benefit for me was that my penis became so insensitive that I could basically last forever.

Instead of fapping 8 times/day, I started to fap once every one or two weeks. After some months I realised that my penis became extremely sensitive and I usually orgasmed after some minutes of stimulation.

This scared me and I asked myself if I completely lost this ability to last as long as I want to.
I did the following experiment because the only reason why I would keep PMOing is my fear of premature ejaculation when being with another person.

I made myself a Tinder account and looked for women who are down to have a sexual encounter. After finding one, we met up and had sex. As expected, I didn’t last longer than 3 minutes which was quite embarrassing.
Nevertheless, there was a connection between us and she agreed to have another hookup. Over the course of two weeks, we met up every day and had sex at least twice/day.

I noticed that with every session we had, I was able to last longer than before. After 10 days I was back to being able to last for a duration of approximately 20 minutes.
There were two factors that played a role, one being the obvious daily stimulation and the other being breathing techniques that I started to use in order to realease sexual tension mid sex.

However, the difference between the quality of sex before and post NoFap was astonishing.
Before NoFap, my sex was passionless and more of a chore. Real women didn’t do it for me and I actively had to think about porn while having sex. NoFap somehow increased my sexual energy and I learned to channel it to one woman instead of porn. My stimuli went from being hardcore porn scenes to one person.
Stimuli from sex became so much richer as my twisted fantasies were brought to a halt by abstinence from porn.

So what can you do with this information?
If you do NoFap to better yourself with the goal of finding a girlfriend, this is good news for you.
Because it might show that regular sex coupled with certain techniques will make you last nearly as long as when you had an insensitive dick aka the deathgrip . So don’t be scared of being a permanent pre-ejaculator if you start nofap. Your sex skills will come back.
Plus, abstinence from porn increases your sex quality at the same time.


I shared my thoughts because I think that it will help me on my journey to reach a 30 days+ streak.
Thanks for existing dear community ❤️