Hey, all. I've been out of the dating arena for a long while, and I thought I might try it out now that I'm more grounded in who I am and what I want. So, I need to know some high level, professional dating advice.... When do I deploy the winky face to a girl? Disclaimer: We've been on two outings already, and I'm definitely not looking for sex here. I just want a wholesome, get-to-know-you relationship.