See, the problem is that I do have a quite big social circle, I have friends and even close friends with whom I can share this kind of stuff, but nothing helps. I have been single for almost 3 years now, with absolutely zero success with women, when I approach women they instantly friendzone me, if I ask them out directly they reject me, attracting them in various ways doesnt work too. No girl has approached me either (and trust me girls approach guys if they find them attractive, a lot of times, this is actually how I met my first and the only girlfriend for the time). I work out for 3 to 4 years as of now, I have a good physique, speak 3 languages and have plenty of hobbies and interests, have a job, but nothing helps. Goddamn. Im honestly thinking this is because of my height, Im 5'4"" and thats kind of short where I live. I think girls are not attracted to me because of this, because they are either taller than me or the same height as me. And thats not attractive sadly. I even had girls tell me straight in my face that they wouldnt date me because Im too short for them. Fuck off. I tried and put myself out , there a lot of times, went to parties, met through my circle of friends, went to meetups, concerts etc. but nothing helps really. I have been on tinder for few months or so, set up a very nice profile with good pictures. I rarely get any matches and if I do, they ghost me after a while. And no, its not my personality. I am not an asshole, niceguy nor a weirdo. Im pretty chill and funny guy and thats it, but people dont know that deep inside im kind of depressed. All of these people trying to gaslight you on the internet saying it must be because of your personality, oh please. If there is no sexual attraction to begin with your personality doesnt even matter. And thats why girls date dumb people, assholes and jerks (im not a niceguy, but just saying) Anyway, I always come home from the work or the gym lonely and depressed, to the point where I can cry for hours at night. I have thought about suicide a year or two ago did not do it. Its not that I want sex so much its just basic human love and contact, I feel like no one in the world really cares for me (I mean there are friends, but they do not care about you like a significant other), I really miss the feeling of someone deeply caring for me and hugging me and such. Im lost. I need help with this. I appreciate honest comments.