A bit of background: I've dabbled in noFap and quitting porn since 2014, and I finally managed to quit it all for good in December, 2016. I'm proud to say I haven't watched porn or masturbated since then (it helped that I was dating a very horny girl for the first few months of 2017 and didn't have the need to ejaculate unaided). However, after we broke up, I maintained this and only ejaculated while having sex. There were periods of a month or more where I was celibate, and when I wasn't, I still never came more than twice a week, having observed the benefits of continence. Fast forward to January 2018, and I decided to experiment with complete celibacy for three months, despite living in a (college) environment with plenty of available women. I won't go into details about what happened, and I'm not sure it was the healthiest (mentally) thing to do, but I made it to the end of three months and while breaking the streak with a girl I was seeing at the time, my ejaculation was ridiculously intense. And since that period of time, my ejaculations have been getting more and more intense, and leave me feeling more and more depleted afterward, even if there is plenty of time in between them. To give you an idea, after coming I'll spas out on my bed for about 3-4 minutes straight, clenching all my muscles, making crazy noises, and in general giving the girl I'm with quite a show. I've gotten many comments saying it was the most intense one they've ever seen, etc. But as the intensity has gone up, so have the downsides. The feeling of coming is borderline painful (while also immensely pleasurable), and it's actually painful afterward, and my dick is sore for multiple days. It's pretty impossible for me to even be horny for at least 48 hours. Sometimes I'm increasingly prone to getting sick/the flu. I have digestive problems afterward, and often have stomach aches for more than a day. In many ways I feel kind of dead for a few days. It's hard for me to work, or even go out and talk to people. I just want to go home and sleep. So, I'm wondering if anyone else who has legitimately quit PM, and only orgasms while having sex, has any input. Have you experienced the same thing? What have you done about it? Do you not experience this? My reaction at this point makes me not even want to have sex, and I find myself actually worse at flirting/talking to girls at this point than I used to be. From a moralistic standpoint, it's possible that I'm realizing why frequent ejaculation was held to be so disgraceful, and that the real solution is to just never have sex again until I get married. But walking around a campus with pretty girls everywhere makes that very difficult. What should I do?