Eye contact

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Break Chains, Jun 11, 2019.

  1. Break Chains

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    I sometimes feel embarassed about my poor eye contact with beautiful women that are authority figures such as maybe a doctor but it does not happen all the time...it started after watching vidz on the net and then attending an open mic event where a lady basically sung a whole song shaming people that like women for their body parts...she even did the sexy movements at the time...now I sometimes get paranoid that women might catch me looking at their breasts when the conversation gets boring or gets too much to look in their eyes...sounds stupid but it's irritating because it's more difficult to bond and make genuine connections.Rant over.
     
  2. Jackb97

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    Can't live your life in fear of women catching you out. And that open Mic-er just sounds like a bitch. Tits are meant to looked at. Why else would girls show their cleavage even on chilly days. You just gotta master the art of the rubber neck.
     
  3. Break Chains

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    Thanks bro that was a helpful reply.
     
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  4. TimeToQuitNow

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    Just think about if someone didn't give you eye contact it would be rude right? A beautiful woman is just a person. The rules of manners apply the same
     
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  5. Infrasapiens

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    Wait so that lady was complaining about people staring at her body in a lusful way, but then proceed to make provocative movements. That's like me saying that I hate common crime, and then go to downtown alley in the middle of the night showing off my wealth expecting not to get mugged.
     
  6. Break Chains

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    True but just alone the fact that you know that would not make it easier straight away but I get what you are saying...edit..actually what you said about always remember they are just a person does help..thanks.
     
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  7. Break Chains

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    Loooooooooooool
     
  8. TimeToQuitNow

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    You're welcome :)
     
  9. Cool I Can Use Spaces

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    I once knew a woman who used to complain quite a bit about sexual harassment but then was constantly making lewd remarks, talking about her sexual exploits at inappropriate times, and making lewd jokes. She got someone fired for sexual harassment under very questionable circumstances. Those type of women are definitely ones to avoid as much as possible.
     
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  10. Infrasapiens

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    I have a cousin like that. She cannot blink and breath at the same time, but knows when to play victim. She won't get far.
     
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  11. Butterfly1988

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    @Break Chains

    Ok. I needed to comment here:

    Women are people. People deserve to be treated with respect and not reduced to a body part or a few body parts. We do not exist to please men. We exist for ourselves.

    @Jackb97 The reason some women show cleavage even on chilly days COULD be because they want attention OR it could be because the outfit was comfy, because it was flattering, because it made her feel good for herself (not other), because it was laundry day, because she is seeing her significant other later, because she got a stain the shirt she was wearing before and had to switch into whatever was quickly available. There are a MILLION reasons. To assume it’s for you to “rubberneck” and violate her by creating some sort of porn fantasy is SO WRONG. Stop giving this advice as I believe men are on this site to be better humans not justify their poor actions and choices...

    The reason the open mic performer may have been talking about being objectified and then moving in a sensual way is because women and men face double standards.

    Have you ever seen this? upload_2019-6-19_8-23-20.jpeg

    This is exactly how women pose in “sexy” ways on magazines. Funny that for men, it’s not sexy at all. It actually looks kind of ridiculous.

    Sometimes a woman can’t even WALK without being accused of wanting sexual attention, let alone dance.

    There’s definitely a deeper meaning there. Just think about it without sexualizing it or demonizing the women.
     
  12. Riz@123

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    I am experiencing such problem please talk on this want to sharensure my side
     
  13. Jackb97

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    Because men are attractive when they are being masculine so obviously they'll look ridiculous when posing like women. I don't see your point at all.
    Should I just castrate myself so I don't think of women sexually anymore? Any attractive woman is going to make any normal man have sexual thoughts.
     
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  14. Butterfly1988

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    So, if your mom/sister/daughter/daughter’s underage friend is an attractive woman you automatically are going to have sexual thoughts about them?

    Jumping to an extreme such as castration? Get out, man. For real?

    You can CHOOSE your thoughts: notice the attractive person, move on.

    You do NOT have to go to a sexual place. Even if attractive men were posed in a masculine way or doing something that would turn me on, I know I have the power to sexualize them or move on.
     
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  15. Jackb97

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    Underage? I'm horny not a paedophile. But urmm yeah if my sister has attractive friends which she does why wouldn't I have sexual thoughts about them? I'd want to have sex with them wouldn't I?
     
  16. Riz@123

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    I agree and please it happens with me which I am so ashamed about and there's guilt which makes me feel depressed all d time
     
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  17. Break Chains

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    You can inbox me and we can talk about it you are not alone.
     
  18. Riz@123

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    I am so embarrassed cause I get easily teased if someone hints or touches and I am glazing at that person body part I have always loved a girl but now this happens even if a guy teases I would do the same I am so worried about my sexuality that I feel ashamed of myself watching porn to that extreme has ruined my life
     
  19. Break Chains

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    Just inbox messaged you.Peace.
     

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