It is better to face our problems in present right now. Than creating a pseudo-problems to hide the real one. Maybe you could solve the problems you imposed in yourself, but the real one you really can't and have to. Just face it, and see the real deal. It won't kill you, but by fooling yourself with these little peskies you created on your own, you are hindering your own growth. We have been living in our dream world, but somehow make an effort to stay in this moment and face your problem. It is hard to accept the reality, I know because I really can't even now, but we have to, even how slowly or intense it'll be. Stay strong guys. Keep moving.