Yesterday, I made the mistake of being curious. I went on Facebook and looked up for old friends and acquaintances from more than a decade ago. Majority of them have girlfriends and some even kids. I'm very mad at myself because now I have those images in my head. Intrusive thoughts aswell like: '' Look how these people made it and not you''. I never really wanted a GF and kids ( What I want in life is a career that I love ). Yet, I'm jealous at these people because I want respect. But by society standard, if you have no girls by your side for too long you are either a) A virgin b) An incel c) An homosexual Any input would be appreciated.