Facebook triggers?

Talk to him, tell him how you feel. Be blunt. My boyfriend and I just discussed this facebook scrolling issue, he decided to delete all the women he has ever masterbated to or finds attractive in any shape or form in order to ease triggers. But first he needs to realize the damage he is doing to you and your marriage and that starts with you being blunt about your feelings. Best of luck!

 

I might be a bit harsh here but why are you tolerating this behaviour in your relationship? If this behaviour is making you feel less confident in yourself and your marriage he has an obligation to stop or at least try to stop. I wouldn't be tolerating his bullshit denial either. Shape up or ship out was what I told my husband because I was DONE at that point. It wasn't an ultimatum either it was a wakeup call to him that this was my intention and I gave him 6 months.
I know not everyone can be this strong but I had lost the will to live at that point so losing him was the last of my worries...I had already lost him anyway. I didn't want to lose myself in the process. You deserve more than this.

 

Facebook was the cause of my first porn related relapse. Facebook can lead you right to porn. And not because of past girlfriends. It was because of groups my guy friends like such as playboy and such. You see these groups and one click later you are in porn world. I have removed my personal Facebook page from my life, which is a challenge because I still need it to run my business page. Main thing I would recommend is to have him remove the app from his phone. It is what helped me.

 

yea facebook can be a source of porn and soft core stuff. You have to be careful on it. You have to talk to your husband honestly about why it is so bad for your marriage.

 

facebook is a trigger for addicts , its better to just chat on facebook rather look around at pic album of others