Hey guys, I’m pretty new here. A couple nights ago I decided to go hookup with one of my friends and I couldn’t get hard for the life of me. I left feeling really shitty about myself and honestly I still do feel horrible and like I’m not a man. after doing research I realize that is probably PIED or something but the weird thing is that I can get erect with someone like a girlfriend but never through a one time hookup. any kind words or hopefulness would go a long way, thanks.