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Failure is the Beauty Of Life.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by helpinghand4all, Nov 13, 2019.

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  1. helpinghand4all

    helpinghand4all Fapstronaut

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    I have no extreme knowledge to share just a bit of realization.

    What if the goal that you were working towards are always done, what if you get everything you want?

    It will remove all beauty of life, you'll have no longing to live, nothing to be interested about.
    Earlier I used to think why do people tend to just try out being with a person, like this seemed bullshit to me being with different people on different days in different relationships, but now I realize why this cheated sort of way prevails even though everyone wants their partners to be committed.
    It is because everyone is enjoying their life. Imagine that the person you'll live your life with as a partner is predetermined at birth, will it be that interesting? Will you really want to be with them anymore or would you just find yourself stuck.The girls who try to put you down are trying to make things interesting make themselves feel wanted.

    This is what I call as "failed relationships" because they can't commit for more than few years, but what if the opposite happened.

    I know most of you might have realized this before me, but now I realize how beautiful it really is. This isn't a piece of knowledge to share and know, you can't know it unless you "realize".

    Fapping removes all beauty in life.

    It's the same reason "porn fantasy" cravings are stronger than sexual cravings, the same reason people find other girls beautiful than the person they're with, same reason why people
    Don't commit. Same reason why everyone is not pushing as hard as they can.

    The list of examples is endless.

    I'm not saying you should stop chasing your goals, and I'm not saying that you should give up and let life crush you over.

    In a situation where failure equates to life or death is just annihilating, but getting everything you want, having everything certain is nothing short of death.

    So what I'm trying to say is that life is extremely beautiful when things are not certain, risk everything you can while you can, don't take failures as the end of your life, never be afraid of failures because when you'll look back upon them you'll find them beautiful!

    Don't be afraid to try nofap just because you aren't certain it will make you Superman, try it out, it's beautiful .
     
    Kakarot_2694 and Hold it in like this.

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