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Fall of modern men

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Deleted Account, Jul 9, 2019.

  1. AlphaAlone

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    I think it's really subjective. Some mid-twenty guy's atc like brats, and I know some 15-17 years old guys who atc like real men.
     
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  2. FormerFapaholic

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    How masculinity is perceived and viewed is all down to the individual. It's down to what they see and believe is a 'real' man is. May that be those attributes or features be physical, mental and/or emotional ones that they'll like (and be attracted to). It's highly subjective, and you know what they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
     
  3. Angus McGyver

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    Nope, I am only 31 years of age at this day and time!
     
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  4. Angus McGyver

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    I have seen men in their late 30's and early 40's act like spoiled brats and (of course) some high-schoolers who act like real men even if the latter is uncommon these days.
    Many of the former are normally from upper-middle class homes who got spoiled and curled during their entire upbringings where the parents were sloppy and let their kids do whatever they wanted without limits/border.
    Combined with all marxist social conditioning, lack of good male role models and patriarchs (with authority) while exposed to female authorities only all the time (in kindergarten and school) is a sure recipe for disaster, especially for men.
    Boys from the latter group are usually from traditional homes (sometimes religious ones) with stricter parenting, clear and straight rules and customs plus a strong father figure who is the leader (head of the household) and has the authority to tell the kids right from wrong when it's needed.
    Kids who get these kind of set rules early on do generally become secure in their identity and great citizens and people to be around when growing older.
     
  5. I think I know exactly what you're talking about LOL. Most of the them all look the same.
     
  6. You think im doing right thing for a 19 year old.Many of my friends say im a prude for saving till marriage.
     
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  7. Liam_here

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    Dude the hook up culture has destroys the west im from Pakistan Mens are different here pakistani mens are co sidered to be third sexiest males in the world and religion controls us which mean we are more spiritual everyone hate is but we don't care cuz we've fpung our peace on things which really matters like 90% of males here lose their virginity for their sides they dint hook up casually and we spend more money in our passions like polo festivals still goes on here tho its expensive but we spend money on things which really matters rather than junk food and stuff other than that we really stuck yo out culture and traditions which keeps us going
     
  8. I got to disagree. This viewpoint is a luxury afforded to people in pampered western societies where living is easy and everything is provided to you by your government. If you go back 200 years or if you try to apply this view point to a less developed poor nation where living is difficult, this view point is null and void. Before you had large governments filling traditionally masculine roles or in places where this doesnt exist, everyone in a society relied on men to survive and provide, food, protection, leadership and shelter. A man was required to sacrifice and try his best to positively contribute to his society and this required him to be strong, resillient and resourceful and in many less developed nations this still holds true.

    The cycle of revolution has been observed in all cultures throughout history. When oppressive governments grew greedy, tyranical and went to far with their abuse of the people, human kind relied exclusively on men to handle business even if it meant killing and dying to end oppression. Masculinity has always been characterized strength, resillience, resourcefulness, courage and the willingness to sacrifice. Even in pampered western liberal countries, one change in regieme could change the way people live for the worst almost overnight so even though were taught not to value true masculinity, it will always be necessary. Its becoming more and more necessary each day with these liberal run western government engaging in mass incarceration, drugging of the population and next level thought control that are already changing our lives for the worse.
     
  9. FormerFapaholic

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    Bollocks. People were allowed to have views and opinions. It's just that they didn't have the right or decided not to be vocal about it back then. Some people won't probably had the time or privilege of doing so. In saying what they in what they had to say. Maybe, you'd rather not live in an age with some of form democracy.
     
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  10. Im old fashioned hbu?
     
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  11. There was no decision to be made. Either men stepped up or everyone perished. This protected existance we enjoy could be taken away from us any second as history is full of example of societies who were enjoying next level prosperity and were falling apart the very next month. If all we have to rely on is a bunch of fuit booty metro sexuals and soy boys, everyone is in real trouble. Authoritative government push the false Idea that masculinity is subjective because a society of soy boys is easier to dominate.
     
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  12. Whats metrosexual?
     
  13. In some ways I am. I believe that a good man should be strong of character and we should encourage these values in one another because if we don't learn to stand up for what is right, this thought control and oppression will only get worse.
     
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  14. Im way more conservative and reserved l used to watch porn cuz i used to get on a sexual high contradicting my values.Im trying to stop it.
     
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  16. EWW fucking disgusting. I know what that means.Im not a peacock.I dress and behave according to the ocassion or social settings.Ur right we cannot depend on soyboys and metrosexual peacocks
     
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  17. LaFlame92100

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    What is wrong with being soft?
     
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  18. You get preyed upon malevolent people and groups.esp if your a biological male
     
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  19. LaFlame92100

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    Ok, thats is true, the question for me is what is „strong“ ? Is is standing up for yourself ?
     
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  20. A good man is a extremely dangerous man with self control.A rabbit is not virtuous.
     
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