I have always been the type to fall in love fast. Im a romantic. I love the butterflies and the rush of a new love interest. I dated a girl all through high school, we dated for four years. That’s when I met my wife. She also was dating a guy of about 5 years at the time. But her and I met, fell in love, left our significant others, and were married 18 months later. Fast forward 3 kids and 7 years later. Life is good. But the spark is gone. She’s my best friend. Kids are consuming our life. Dates aren’t fun because after dinner and a sitter, we’ve blown $120. Then someone new appears. I’m not stupid, she probably doesn’t even think of me that way. But if she were and option for me prior to marriage. I would have pursued it. Smart, funny, beautiful, and she gets every one of my quirks. I can’t stop thinking about her. Why? I see a trend here. Why am I like this? I’m seriously not wanting anything out of it. I want to know why I’m like this. I want to feel what I feel for her, but for my wife. How do you keep it fresh with your spouse after 7 years. I don’t want to have the thoughts I’m having.