Fantasising

[naruhina]

Yesterday I was taking a shower and I started to fantasize about a girl I made out 4/5 months ago Ave I got hard for like 6/7 minutes, I’ve hadn’t been that hard for that long since a long time. I’m on day 145 of no pmo.
My question is is fantasising not good for recovery? And I didn’t fantasize about porn I fantasized about a girl with whom I had made out with.
Please let me know if this is wrong and I should stop fantasising overall.
Thank you

 

[Deleted Account]

See it as a positive, your brain is rewiring to fantasise over real life connections and people. It's progress.

 

[Chaste guy]

is fantasising not good for recovery? And I didn’t fantasize about porn I fantasized about a girl with whom I had made out with.

If you want to continue streak, you should avoid fantasies, because they can result in relapses. In short, I wouldn't.

 

[naruhina]

If you want to continue streak, you should avoid fantasies, because they can result in relapses. In short, I wouldn't.

I definitely want to continue this streak until my libido is back and I start getting spontaneous erections when I see them in public?
So you’re telling I shouldn’t fantasise about anything right now? Is that right?

 

[Chaste guy]

So you’re telling I shouldn’t fantasise about anything right now? Is that right?

In short, yeah. Fantasy is still just a fantasy, it is not a real deal.

 

[naruhina]

In short, yeah. Fantasy is still just a fantasy, it is not a real deal.

Okay thank you