So I’m on hard mode, completely avoiding porn and masturbation. I’m just wondering if fantasies slow down the rebooting process at all. I’m getting pretty good at not checking out strangers, undressing them with my eyes, or lingering on their beauty afterwards. However, I do seem to keep thinking about past sexual encounters, and I fantasize a bit about coworkers. I was horny for just about my entire shift, just imagining what it would be like to hold a coworker’s hand at a movie, or what it would be like to get a surprise kiss from her at work.