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Fap Free 2020s?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Zinc, Jul 12, 2015.

  1. Zinc

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    Once I hit 2019 24th December (xmass 19') and gone 4 years without porn and fap, I'm going to fap my mind off to Oculus Rift even if I have a partner. I'm going to do it until 2020 1st January and go 10 years without porn and fap.

    Is there any person who has went 10 years without porn and fap in this forum?

    Does my idea sound stupid or pretty hardcore? Just wonder, thought it was a funny idea. I'm going to be 26 in 2020.
     
    Last edited: Jul 13, 2015
  2. ThatOneGuy56

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    Not a good idea, kinda sounds selfish if you ask me. Bad idea, trust me if you do it you will regret it.
     
  3. Zinc

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    Selfish in what way?
     
  4. ThatOneGuy56

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    Bro your saying your gonna fap even if you are in a relationship, your partner should release the desires from any form of sex. Just don't do it man.
     
  5. BlueNotes

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    This sounds like the mentality of a 21 year old.
    Oh wait...
    C'mon bro, it's a horrible fucking idea.
    I'll bet you $10 you get beyond hooked from your new virtual reality porn binge and then your partner is gonna wonder why your dick isn't going up or why you don't wanna have sex with her. All because of your selfish act. See how it's selfish now?
     
  6. SkyDoge

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    If you think regular PMO was a problem that fucked up your life, VR will be even worse for you. With mentality like this, you probably won't ever have a partner because you'll be inside fapping alone. Think about it before deciding this is something you want back in your life.
     
  7. Zinc

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    But hey guys, before I do this I'm gonna go 4 years without fap and porn. What's the problem?
     
  8. Sounds like you are finding it hard to let go of porn @Zinc . You are making porn a reward. You are making porn your destination.

    You must let go of porn. You must move away from porn and move towards connection with a real girl, connection with your friends.
     
  9. SkyDoge

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    The problem is that if PMO is bad now, it's bad in the future too.

    If you have a reason to quit now, the same reason should apply in the future.

    Otherwise what are you even doing here?
     
  10. Zinc

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    I'll think through this.
     
  11. feo1966

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    It would be like a junkie saying that when they get out of rehab .... they are going to reward themselves with a week of heroine and crack
     
  12. Zinc

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    Well its just a week though.
     
  13. ThatOneGuy56

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    Still its stupid just let go of porn man.
     
  14. It's as if you're making porn a God. "In 4 years I'm going to bow down to it and it give it the love it deserves, when it has evolved to even bigger heights" is essentially what you're saying.

    I agree with the others. Let go.

    4 years.... If you truly do go 4 years without PMO, then I can guarantee that you wont want to go back to that garbage anyway. By then, you'll be a transformed man.

    The problem here, is that you are kidding yourself by looking too far ahead into the future anyway. I admire your ambition, but you need to be humble and work on getting through even a week without PMO. That's the real challenge my brother.
     
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  15. Zinc

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    But after that I'm gonna go 10 years without it.
     
  16. You won't be able to go 30 days with your mentality as it currently is @Zinc

    You can choose to listen to us folks who are trying to help you. Or you can carry on deluding yourself by letting your monkey brain lead you.

    The choice is yours.
     
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  17. Zinc

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    I have gone 30 days before though. But not pass that, I don't know I'm convinced I'll do 4 years from now on.
     
  18. @Zinc you asked us for advice. You are ignoring all of us. When you are ready to listen, we'll be here to support you.
     
  19. Zinc

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    You're right, I'll open up this topic in 2019 again.
     
  20. Hopefully after 4 years without porn or fapping, you won't be feeling the same way. Good luck until then ;-)
     

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