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fapping makes me feeling unlucky

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by shamedperson, Feb 1, 2018.

Do you feel same feeling (with luck) after having sex with girlfriend like you do after fapping?

  1. Yes, they're practically same.

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  2. No, fapping is such a horrible thing.

    33.3%
  3. I don't know maybe both are same s**t.

    66.7%
  1. shamedperson

    shamedperson New Fapstronaut

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    hey guys as u can see i am new to nofap forum :) Firstable srry for my bad English, since i'm still learning it. so here is the case: i'm 17 y/o and decided to give up fapping, it has passed two days since i didn't masturbate and going to reach goal 2 weeks or more because i have already reached one week without fapping. The main reason why i have decided to quit is that feeling after it when you are shamed a little bit, also feeling unlucky in many thing like communicating with someone and you get so many negative, but i get used to it since i know that in my religion it is considered to be a sin, so you get punished for it.(im not that type but i found religion most comfortable to quit) so i wonder if consequences after fapping and having sex with girlfriend are the same? (i mean that feelings that i've mentioned above) hope i will finally QUIT FROM THAT HORRIBLE HABIT!
     
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  2. Septimus

    Septimus Fapstronaut

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    Welcome, @shamedperson, I'm glad you're here. Keep coming back!
     
  3. Hey shamedperson,
    Welcome to the NoFap community!
    If you haven't already, check out this information on rebooting. I've found it helpful in knowing what to expect.
    Obviously, fapping and sex are different things and affect a person differently. The consensus here is that sex is a lot betting than fapping.
    Feel free to message me or anyone else here if you have questions or want to talk.
    Best of luck during your reboot.
    Again, Welcome!
     
  4. shamedperson

    shamedperson New Fapstronaut

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    yeah it goes pretty well :) thanks for help :) i hope i'll reach two weeks in total! without fapping life seems so nice to me but sometimes i want to feel that pleasure after fapping xD i think i'll beat myself !
     
  5. Hey @shamedperson ,

    I'm just a normal ordinary member. No moderator super powers and no special insite. I share my ESH (Experience, Strength and Hope) of what works for me.

    Just another warm welcome and a heart felt hello. This community has helped me so much.

    What worked for me was "working" it. It took hard work for me to complete a hard reboot (No pmo) for 120 days, then move into a Sex Positive mode.

    First, reading the literature published by NoFap itself along with reading journals.

    Then, doing the work. Writing in my journal and replying to introductions and other's journals.

    Finally, but not least, getting involved with the fellowship. I found it on the forums, but also in people's profiles. The forums tend to be longer posts, where the profiles tend to be more "conversational".

    That is what has worked for me. I like to remind myself that this community was here waiting for me with the lights on when I arrived. Now, I have to do my best to be there when someone comes to the community.

    * L

    PS:

    One of the ways I got involved with the fellowship was by reading some really great journals. Reading other's stories with their victories and even defeats is a big part of my program.

    I've included journals from all age groups, spiritual members, religious members, secular members, male and female. You should find journals that help. If not, look around, there are hundreds of others from which to choose. When I say "it works if you work it", reading journals is part of that work.

    Once you open a journal, click "Watch Thread" in the upper right of the page to get alerts when new posts are made. Here are just a few:

    @C. J. Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/153580/
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    @Reverent Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/143845/
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    @weddingnails Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/143418/
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    @2525 Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/150280/
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    @Visor Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/144228/
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