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Feeling Sex for the first time.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by fjerid, Mar 26, 2016.

  1. Mar 26, 2016 #1
    fjerid

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    To keep it short, I want to know how it felt; your first time having sex. Was it awkward? How fast did you finish? Did she even seem to enjoy it? I've heard endurance comes with practise and time and being experienced brings more pleasure.

    24 years old, still a virgin. Now... with NoFap and working out i'm hornier than ever and this sexual energy it wants to release. It's not even like its uncontrollable no no... it's quite the opposite. I'm calm, almost charasmatic and talkative when im around chicks. (Which was the opposite of before i wanked everyday) but sometimes i find myself fantasizing about them right there and right then.

    My point is i dont know what to do if the time is right. But i want to know how others did their first time!
     
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  2. Mar 26, 2016 #2
    Ikindaknew

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    I first did it with an older, experienced girl. I managed to make her come. I think she was honest. She was like wow its rare that one guy manages to do this to me...I got lucky I guess. I guess I kinda knew what to do because I had read a lot of sexual encyclopedia books at the library.
    Anyway, concentrate on preliminaries, ask what she likes if possible, don't assume too much. don't pull any porn moves. Don't expect much...
     
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  3. Mar 26, 2016 #3
    fjerid

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    That's awesome man. Wouldn't you agree if both were equally inexperienced that it would be less awkward? Or would it be the exact opposite? Don't expect much... is what I keep hearing but I expect alot bro! Haha :)
     
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  4. Mar 26, 2016 #4
    Ikindaknew

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    Expectations = stress= possible performance anxiety= possible issues!

    Equally inexperienced might be more awkward imho. The first time most ladies have sex, its not pleasurable, may hurt apparently...so if you don't know what you are doing and she doesn't, sounds like it might not be the best thing. If you love each oithe much and play it by ear..well why not. Be careful with her! Losing you "innocence" to an older women ...is nice.

    I never been with a virgin girl. And I didn't look forward to it either. I always aimed for experience. Experienced ladies KNOW what to do!
     
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  5. Mar 26, 2016 #5
    fjerid

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    Good point there. I should expect less from first time and already look forward on having tons of sex.

    Virgin or not... I don't know whom I might end up with but it's how you handle her I suppose!

    Any tips for a brother to turn her on or even make her come? References to articles are fine too!
     
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  6. Mar 26, 2016 #6
    Ikindaknew

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    all that stuff would be triggers to people!!!
     
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  7. Mar 27, 2016 #7
    fjerid

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    Hahaha didnt think of that. i'll do my own research!! Thanks for your input tho bro!
     
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  8. Mar 27, 2016 #8
    DireMerl

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    Don't worry too much about it. If you do it with someone you connect with it'll all just work itself out. Sex isn't a performance. You're not supposed to researching and freaking out about this stuff. Any girl who likes you enough to have sex with you will want to explore these things together. Yes it's nice to be with someone who knows what they're doing, but honestly it's far better to connect with someone. Important thing is, relax. Its not actually that hard. You'll figure it out.
     
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