My sister told me about this site, she got great comfort from it when her husband and her went through some major issues about his porn use. I am hoping that some people on here can tell me that I'm not alone and what I should do. On Tuesday I found out that my wife, the mother of our three children, has been using porn daily for at least four years. What is ironic is that when we were dating, more than a decade ago, she asked me not look at porn. I threw out the one magazine I had from a cousin and never looked back. I feel so incredibly betrayed and humiliated. The worst part is that she has also been doing cyber sex with guys form around the world when I'm at work and the kids are at school, sharing pictures and videos with complete strangers - she even set up an account and has tried being a "cam girl". And she filmed it in our bedroom! She says she is willing to change, and that she doesn't want to lose me. I just don't know what to do.