Female Fapstronaut Needs Help!

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by AllanTheCowboy, Jun 28, 2016.

  1. Jennifer

    Jennifer Guest

    Of course :)
  2. I don't know if I can send you a private message via NoFap.
    Do you have a Facebook account ?
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  3. Jennifer

    Jennifer Guest

    Just messaged you and I do have Facebook :)
  4. Yesodi

    Yesodi Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Please note that the NoFap.com forum features "private messages" via the "Conversations" mechanism.

    For the record, some benefits over other channels (like Facebook) include:
    1. Preservation of anonymity.
    2. Ability to flag offensive or otherwise-inappropriate messages to the Moderation team via the "Report" mechanism. ;)
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  5. Yes, I figured it out ! Thanks :)
  6. MsPants

    MsPants Guest

    @Jennifer your bfs response is normal. Of course he would flip out for what you have been doing behind his back. It is equivalent to cheating. I flipped out and I know almost all the other significant others did to. I'm sure you would've reacted the same way if the roles were reversed. The point is that you have now become honest with him. He is angry, which is to be expected but you told him instead of him discovering it for himself and that may have resulted in him leaving for good. Now he has the opportunity to decide how to handle this information bc you were honest, which shows that he may eventually trust you again. No one said it would be easy, but you made the best step forward and opened up the secrecy and admitted to the lies. That may be worth it for him to stick around. Don't assume it is over with him bc he reacted exactly like all of us did. He will probably want to know more about your addiction. Point him in the direction of yourbrainonporn.com and the Ted talks video so he can process the addiction as it is rather than just all emotion.
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  7. vulture175

    vulture175 Fapstronaut

    Weakening your physical body can weaken physical urges.

    Weakening your psychological mind can weaken psychological urges.
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  8. Jennifer

    Jennifer Guest

    Today is already start out tough! Wanting to quit this site and go to my old ways!
  9. Don't give up Jennifer ! We all know you can do it
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  10. Better Than This

    Better Than This Fapstronaut

    Im telling you: the first 10 days are the hardest, just because its so easy to start over again. Push through this.
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  11. Jennifer

    Jennifer Guest

    Anyone wanna keep me sane? My mind is filled with appropriate thoughts. #pleasehelp
  12. Jennifer

    Jennifer Guest

    I actually don't hate you as much!
    And for the people who having been supporting me and helping you know who you are :)
    I'm not gonna quit this thread just yet
  13. Jennifer

    Jennifer Guest

    Still need a female Ap!
  14. Faze

    Faze Fapstronaut

    Don't quit Jennifer! Just hang in there. Positivity is all you need in your life!
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  15. ivanhoe

    ivanhoe Fapstronaut

    Jennifer, please hold on. I don't know what will work for you but i just think about my 'first day' I came here and how awful i felt, and not matter what my struggles, here at least, i felt i was moving forward.
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  16. Jennifer

    Jennifer Guest

    Thank you so much. I could use someone right now to stay sane
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  17. Ibezerk

    Ibezerk Fapstronaut

    24 year old divorced male
    Love to lift weights
    Recently got out of marine corps
    Love movies
    Going to college for robotic engineering
    I want to never look at pornography again
    I want my manhood back
    Looking for accountability partners
    I'm using an app called r tribe
    Great for convenience of keeping accountability....
    Username : ibezerk

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