femdom addiction

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by chri9406, Mar 23, 2019.

edging bad for health other than sexual health?

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  2. no

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  1. chri9406

    chri9406 New Fapstronaut

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    What r in ur opinion some arousing non damaging or at least less damaging porn types to relapse?

    Believe it or not imo regularly hearing the words spoken eg in femdom pov's and joi's damaged my mindset and hence life circumstances massively.

    And since I usually have long-sick streaks (longest~370days) followed horrible binge relapse days ...

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  2. BruceD

    BruceD Fapstronaut

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    I think any sexual stimulating material is not good and causes relapse not just porn. My goal is to stay away from it all.
    My best, you had an awesome streak there! I went about six weeks a few years back.
     
  3. If you already know they are going to cause you to slip, avoid them, stay away.
     
  4. chri9406

    chri9406 New Fapstronaut

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    if u have decent access to women then pls stay with that approach Bruce, i had to move back to mum in 4 house village without car while desperately trying to make self employment profitable on pc so i only see max two woman of super roughly my age per month IRL and no time to seek

    Freddie so im torn if staying away from any stimulating material is healthy/sustainable but in his and most cases sure
     
  5. Staying away is health while you are trying to heal yourself. Sustainable is up to the individual, slip ups do happen but in time your will get it under control.
     
  6. BruceD

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    Please let me clarify: I certainly do not oppose talking to/admiring attractive women in real life. On the contrary, although it can have it's own triggers for which we want to stay diligent. However, it's the outside artificial stimulation and it does not have to be porn proper. I know this firsthand as I feverishly looked at workout/fitness/muscular women. This tremendously skewed my sex drive away from real sex with my girlfriend of over 4 years. I believe PIED is very real and I plan on crusading with you all.

    I do think Monk Mode is the way to go for this, but we can't shut ourselves off completely from good opportunities.
     

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