Femdom, Feet, Cuckold Addiction

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  1. SheldonCooper0101

    SheldonCooper0101 Fapstronaut

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    Hi. I'm new to NOFAP. It's just been 10 minutes since my last relapse and I fapped off to a cuckold foot porn whereby the slave was worshipping the bull's feet. I HATED DOING THIS...I JUST CANT STOP...Don't know why. I was never attracted to vanilla sex, still a virgin, never had a girlfriend...my life is just a mess.

    I'm 22 years old. I think I have a foot/leg fetish since i was 9 years old. I used to love massaging my sister's feet (she is the reason why i have a foot fetish). Since we were kids, she did't really pay any attention why i did so. Then came the internet and I used to see pictures of actress feet and legs. I was introduced to porn when I was 15. I still remember feeling disgusted watching the mistress humiliate the slave to such extent. But, with time, this became my source of fantasy. Not only am i a foot fetishist, but also i am a humiliation slave. I love humiliation (AND I HATE THIS). I still remember hating cuckold femdom porn at the very beginning, but with time, I eventually became addicted to cuckold porn and I STILL AM. I love female feet (and hate male feet), but when the cuck is at the bull's feet, the humiliation is so intense. I REALLY HATE MY LIFE. I also fapped off watching my female friends feet and i really regret doing so.

    I want to be attracted to normal body parts like boobs and ass. I really thought there was no way i could get out of this vicious porn circle until i found a post on nofap. I was shocked to find so many people in the same situation as me and this is the only reason i created this account. I want to quit femdom, stop feeling addicted to feet at all. PLZZZ HELP.. Those who can relate and have successfully got out of this horrific type of porn, I really need your help. I always say am gonna stop but ends up having triggers time after time after time. I'm really sick of this. Perhaps the only positive thing is that I've always kept this private and have no intention to bring this fantasy in my real life. So please help. Advise what i have to do to stop this addiction.

    Thank you very much for reading this post. I will be deeply honored if you can help. me.
     
  2. Welcome to the community and thank you for sharing your story.
     
  3. SheldonCooper0101

    SheldonCooper0101 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks bro..any advice for me?
    Will be really grateful
     
  4. CapitanNemo

    CapitanNemo Fapstronaut

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    On my longest streak, albeit only a few weeks, I definitely noticed a difference in my level of attraction towards women. Some I hadn't even noticed beforehand became attractive, and others who I already thought were attractive, well, you can imagine. I hear the feeling is even more pronounced after several months. However, once I relapse and stopped NoFap for some time, it went right back down to what it had been. I imagine if you stop after a couple weeks at most you will begin to notice a difference in what you are attracted to. I think the degree of that change depends on how addicted you are now, e.g. if you start NoFap and typically only watched porn once or twice a week, you will notice a difference much faster than someone who watched it every day or several times a day. Now, the problem is getting to that 2 or 3 week mark and then continuing, which is quite difficult. I am not as nearly qualified to explain how to do that as someone who has actually had a long streak, but what helped me get at least to 3 weeks was packing my schedule every day and sticking to it. Getting up early and working out/starting a big task before the sun rises is always a big help, since it gives you momentum for the rest of the day and you will likely be quite tired by 9 or 10, which is an optimal time to go to sleep for many of us since urges often hit strong later at night. Before you go to bed, it's helpful to write out what you will do the next day in detail so you can get up and execute without thinking too much about it. The thing that made me relapse was thinking it'd be OK to check Instagram after those 3 weeks. I usually jacked off to that, so it was RIP streak by the end of the day, but the point is whatever your trigger(s) to jack off is/are, avoid that shit like the fucking plague. Some guys are strong enough to be able to check social media without urges or even watch porn during their streak but not jack off to it, but I am not one of those people. Anyway, good luck man. Feel free to message me if you have any problems.
     
  5. Reading, learning and making a plan then sticking to it. After 90 days pre porn fetishes might not go away for you but should be manageable so it isn't controlling your life. Improvement is a good thing.
     
  6. Hello and welcome.

    Your brain needs a break from all things sexual. It won’t be easy but it will be worth it. I once thought I would never be the same again...but after being on some pretty long streaks and not giving up, the little things will start to arouse you again. I wish you all the best! :)
     
  7. SheldonCooper0101

    SheldonCooper0101 Fapstronaut

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    You mean the little things still arouse you??
     
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  8. SheldonCooper0101

    SheldonCooper0101 Fapstronaut

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    Yes i dont mind having a mild foot fetish..but the other fetishes are just unbearable honestly
     
  9. SheldonCooper0101

    SheldonCooper0101 Fapstronaut

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    Yes bro..even the slightest thing trigger me...for instance, a girl might just show some feet on social media and i can actually jack off to that...its been a nightmare honestly
     
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  10. After you abstain for a good while, yes the little things will arouse you again.
     
  11. SheldonCooper0101

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    How to then fight these little arousals?
     
  12. You got to find something to do that requires your full attention. For me it was video games. Whenever a bad urge hit I would play some fallout. Everyone is different...find what works for you :)
     
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  13. Imnatty7

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    start nofap you'll see in a week nah... in 3 days you'll want to fuck anything that move's lmao, you'll feel the testosterone in your body you'll see

    small tips : if you really can't stop fapping even tho you really want it install k9 on your pc and make it as you can't fap, I used to fap twice every day a month ago, surprise, I install k9 with a throwable email, now I don't have youtube but I can't watch porn, i've been relapsing every 3-4 days/ fapping to vanilla, in 3 minutes im done and its only getting better, its if you're sure of yourself tho cause I will never be able to be on youtube on this pc, I put an impossible password and don't remember the email lol
    have fun :p
     
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  14. SheldonCooper0101

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    Yes dude i did that too, but the problem has been i jack off to feet pictures
     
  15. Am3f77

    Am3f77 Fapstronaut

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    don't feel shame for feet fetish u have, I do the same, the solution is to know why u love feet?

    some searches reveals that the person with honest relations and want to love and serve the girl who love would be so close to have feet fetish ,cause this feet fetish will prove his love and loyalty,

    U CANT JUST BE ASS FETISH OR OTHER IN DAYS,

    JUST REMOTE UR FETISH TO LOVE HONESTLY AND STILL HAVE THE FEET FETISH TOWARD ONE GIRL TO LOVE, THIS IS A HUGE STEP,

    THEN AFTER DAYS AND DAYS U WILL REALIZE THIS AS A HABIT TO EXPRESS UR LOVE, NOT A HUGE THING,

    ESPECIALLY WHEN U BELIEVE THE FACT THAT IN ANATOMY THERE IS NOOOOOO DIFFERENCES BETWEEN MEN AND GIRLS FEET, SAME BONE SAME SKIN (with some small hair u know) SAME BAD SMELL,
    SO WITH THIS KNOWLEDGE U CAN CONRTOLL UR SELF + STUCK WITH ONE GIRL = U R REAL AND HAVE FUN
     
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  16. Am3f77

    Am3f77 Fapstronaut

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    I am married and have feet fetish since the childhood, after marriage I found out the feet fetish is smaller than I thought especially with thinkings a bout why I want to be under her feet
     
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  17. Don't worry brother... There is still hope for you. As long as you don't give up on believing in yourself and that there is a future where you will be the person you want to be. As long you get angry or are in pain because of your actions, there is still hope. Those who feel pain got a evidence that they are still alive. Those who get angry got the evidence that they don't accept the path they are following. First of all you need to accept who and what you are. Also what and who you are not. YOU ARE NOT YOUR ADDICTION. YOUR ADDITION IS A INVADER NOT A PART OF YOUR PERSONALITY. Accept that there are other issues which fuel your addiction. If you want to beat this addiction you must get as strong as you can become. You need to restore peace with the part that you keep fighting against and I am not talking about your addiction. Stop fighting against the part of you that isn't the enemy. You are not your enemy. Reunite, put your conflicts aside or even solve them. Accept each other unite powers, become one and take down that Addiction.

    You can become a Hero by saving your own life
     
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  18. AngeZarate10

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    don't worry, we had the same problem you and me.
    it happened to me years ago with a friend of mine who had her feet massaged on my cock, and I was already watching footjob videos.
    and from there it ended up that I also used female shoes to masturbate, besides the foot / shoejob videos near the photos of girls (I don't know if I explained myself well)
    now it's 23 days I've been done with these crap, and I find my real tastes, tits, ass, etc ...
    little by little but you will succeed.
     
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  19. Saturos

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    Man do I love feet. There's nothing wrong with liking feet. Women are so beautiful. It's perfectly fine to love their body parts. It's natural. Did you do a 90 day reboot? Do it and then tell us how you feel. I did and I still love their body parts but not in a lustful way, but more in an appreciative way.
     
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  20. Florida Freedom

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    Thanks for sharing your story, As I hear you describe your situation, I can hear your heart to change. That is what we are all here, whether fetish or regular desires, our bodies should not control us. Your brain needs a reset.....…...your mind will clear and you will receive the strength.
     
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