Femdom Fetish is a Deadly Disease

Work on yourself and fendom will end

 

Interesting take. In my experience, femdom had me hating myself and putting women on a pedestal rather than hating them.
But yes, I agree totally that it is a deadly disease. It ruined my life in someways and could have driven me to suicide. Perhaps worse is the fact that many subs put themselves at great risk in their desperate desire to find a domme.
On one occasion I was beaten by a woman and on another I found myself in the back of a car with two people who I had just met, realising that no one knew where I was . . .

 

I was heavily addicted to findom ... into males though ... So, should I hate and convict all men now? Guess not. I can understand your frustration, anger, hatred too well. Yet, do not blame the women.
If you're an addicted gambler and spent all your fortune in Casinos ... who do you blame? The slot machine? The roulette table? The groupie? The Casino owner?
Guess you get the point.
We got addicted in some form or another. That sucks. Now we are here to support each other to get free of addiction, break that habit pattern of compulsive, obsessive behavior, looking for validation, love, belonging ... at the wrong places, using the wrong means.
Have mercy with yourself. (Self) bashing is a normal reaction but not helpful. Be gentle and work on healing, recovery, sobriety. Stay strong.

 

Brother,
If have gone through the same problems with femdom.
The solution is simple, but it won't be easy.

- Stop watching ALL porn
- Stop masturbating
- Delete all femdom in your life! I know these girls are everywhere. Delete twitter, Kik etc.
- Start lifting weights
- Start eating and drinking healthy
- Read books (self-improvement / self-help / The Bible)

By doing this, you reboot your brain from this femdom-disease and you increase your natural testostone.
Become the man you were ment to be.

 

Your hate to women, can be sent away, or taken away. You should find what made you hate women and take those thoughts away, you'll have to rewash or clean your brain or your beliefs. Because there might be women who wants to dominate but you can also learn to forgive, that despite what they do (women) you are still valuable as them, and that you deserve respect as them. No one is superior from the other.

 

That's great!
We need to support eachother in these times. Feel free to contact me, when you need to talk.

 

I understand you blame, I did so too. Believe me, blame leads nowhere, especially it won't lead you out of your own misery. Men, IMO are not oppressed by the beauty of women ... Men are oppressed if then by their own lack of confidence and a uneducated mind.
Whatever brought you to the point you are at right now ... blame keeps you in the past, owning it and taking full responsability for your own shit will give you a liberated future. Get out of your mind prison, tear down those bars of false beliefs and thoughts. Leave those women alone and get to work. It's great you're here on NF. Work on your recovery, heal. Wish you all the best on your journey towards freedom and sobriety.

 

dude, you are lucky to get out alive. These people could have organ traffickers, who knew ?