Femdom Fetish

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atakankurudere

Fapstronaut
Hello guys i stopped watching all femdom porn and i wanted to ask you some things about my foot fetish.
Will looking to mistresses twitter accounts cause a relapse or not?
and will masturbating and orgasming to foot videos reinforce my fetish or not ?
How can i get rid of the fetish completely?
I had it since my childhood.
 
In my opinion:
You should avoid all the things that arouse you. It includes twitter accounts, and also texts related to your fetish. Because these things will lead you to relapse over time. In my past attempts, this kind of behavior ruined everything.
I think you know that watching those videos increases your fetish. You need to reflect on your experiences an be honest with yourself. And fetish videos can also push you to more extreme fetishes.
atakankurudere said:
How can i get rid of the fetish completely?
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I have the same problem. I don't have enough progress to answer this. But I hope the fetish decays in time.
 
I thought watching porn without M is not as harmful as PMO and its not releasing so much dopamine? PMO releases this much dopamine or just P
 
From experience yes - Twitter, Facebook, Youtube, all potential triggers if you have this kind of fetish (as do I). We live in a highly fetishised and sexualised world where its almost unavoidable. The best way to overcome is to avoid the material that triggers negative behaviour. Good luck my friend!
 
atakankurudere

Mainly masturbation and porn will increase your fetish, because of the dopamine process. And it also becomes a strong addiction over time. And porn also releases dopamine.
I also advise you:
If you want success in your strike, stay away from all the things that arouse you. No matter if those things are video, audio, pictures, text. These things don't seem as harmful as porn now. But maybe tomorrow, or in a certain amount of days, those things will lead you to relapse. When you are with this kind of material your brain will remember the porn and probably you can not scape.

Trust on me I did the same and it doesn't work.
We are still in the struggle.
 
Totally agree with the comments here. I'm fighting a similar addiction and if I expose myself to things that might arouse .. even if it is written fiction rather than graphic porn or pictures etc. then it is a slippery slope to succumbing soon after.

As for getting rid.. the only way I've heard of that succeeded for people was staying away from all porn, triggers etc. for an extended period of time. This gives your mind time to recover and others have found these fetishes went away and were refocused more positively over time. I hope I will be able to share a similar story in the future :)
 
elvagoazul said:
I think you know that watching those videos increases your fetish. You need to reflect on your experiences an be honest with yourself. And fetish videos can also push you to more extreme fetishes.
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That's so deeply. You really put me on thoughts, because I'm in same situation, I like feet videos and some humilitio. Now, I'm constient that it's only a way to release to others fetishes more bad, right extreme. If you are rockie foot fetish, you could to get rid soon.
 
Decide if you want to get over the fetish or not. If you want to look at mistresses accounts on twitter, you shouldn't be asking how long will it take for the fetish to go away.? Its like eating burger everyday and asking yourself why am I not getting thinner... Also, dealing with fetishes require strong will, because any small thing can cause a relapse back to fetish porn. If you are dedicated enough to condition yourself with a stubborn mind that you don't want to masturbate to the fetish, it will eventually go away.
 
Visiting twitter accounts of this kind is perhaps the worse thing you can do. It can be highly addictive as you will be always wondering if a girl has posted something new, compulsively checking to see if there are any updates, following more and more profiles, scrolling down endlessly, receiving random rewards of dopamine with every new tweet or pic.
 
For the addictions to femdom and fetishes getting aroused is highly caused by the attitude of the subject. I was never aroused by femdom videos with women who faked being dominate. When they knew how to be dominate, it's dangerous. A dominatrix can easily express their dominant posture on twitter just by using words and hence triggering us. All social media is dangerous waters. Look into the book DIGITAL MINIMALISM by Cal Newport.
 
Sargiel said:
Totally agree with the comments here. I'm fighting a similar addiction and if I expose myself to things that might arouse .. even if it is written fiction rather than graphic porn or pictures etc. then it is a slippery slope to succumbing soon after.

As for getting rid.. the only way I've heard of that succeeded for people was staying away from all porn, triggers etc. for an extended period of time. This gives your mind time to recover and others have found these fetishes went away and were refocused more positively over time. I hope I will be able to share a similar story in the future :)
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Yes brother you will be able
 
I have found the perfect way for anyone struggling with addiction to any variation of femdom videos and is wanting to make a change.

When doing this you may find yourself in a position to be triggered to m but this is about overcoming that using will power.
If you feel like you can not watch a femdom video without m then start small something small and work your way up to what turns you on the most. For example you could start with femdom videos that are very poorly acted. You’ll see when you read the instructions.
•firstly I started with a video that made me relapse it was a femdom related office instruction video, now she tried her best to humiliate me verbally but every time she’d insult me I’d throw an insult right back at her and you’ll find she becomes less attractive and dominant when you make fun of their act.
For example she way saying something like you have a small penis and I would say in my head or out loud you wouldn’t be saying that if my dick was in your mouth, you’d shut your bratty mouth up then. It realised to me that as I broke down her act to seduce me it wasn’t that enticing and dominant it was really a pathetic performance of bullying. From this I could build it up towards more enticing femdom videos with a real good Dom in it.
Please try this and reply with the feedback on how it helped it isn’t long term recovery imo but I think it will help if your watching one of them videos and wanted to pmo
stay strong brothers
123Dele
 
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