Femdom/Findom humiliation

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by LITTLEKING1, Jan 3, 2019.

  1. LITTLEKING1

    LITTLEKING1 New Fapstronaut

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    I have a problem with this type of fetish and I'd really like to stop watching and get over it for good. I discovered the femdom fetish around 3 years ago and findom shortly after. I would watch women on pornhub and look at their profiles on Twitter and masturbate to them, without actually doing anything. But eventually I gave in and sent one girl money on 3 separate occasions in one day. I became addicted and now it's pretty much the only type of porn I jack to. Videos of beautiful women humiliating and degrading me turn me on a lot but I always feel ashamed and regretful afterwards. It's as though I come out of a trance and think to myself... "Fuck sake, why do I keep jacking to this stupid shit?"

    I know I'm going too far with it now and I just want to forget about it and get on with life, without feeling like a slave to humiliating pornography. I know it's destructive and I should be working on self improvement and bettering myself instead. I really want to take nofap seriously and make a change in a positive way which is why I wanted to post on here. Thanks for reading and I look forward to reading your replies and any advice you have.
     
  2. DogDaysOfLife

    DogDaysOfLife Fapstronaut

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    https://nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/becoming-a-live-in-slave.173925/

    ^ Here is an interesting thread. It shows that even people who have gotten very deep into it can get out. I love these moments of clarity. They put the problems into perspective and can propel you on a better path. You just have to hop on the self-improvement train. Learn and apply as much as you can.
     
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  3. LITTLEKING1

    LITTLEKING1 New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man. I'll check it out.
     
  4. Ashin_kusher

    Ashin_kusher Fapstronaut

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    Man im in the exact same situation. It's been going on even longer. It's totally killed my confidence.
     
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  5. HotToddy

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    Although I've never sent a woman money, dominant women are something I've always found hot as hell. I'd say stop wasting your money for sure, but there's nothing wrong than finding dominance sexy. Try having a girlfriend who is. Yeah the sex is awesome, but our relationship, not so much. Extremely manipulative.

    TLDR: Respect yourself, don't waste money, attraction to dominant women is not unhealthy.
     
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  7. Clarke

    Clarke Fapstronaut

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    What's you're relationship with your mother like?
     
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