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Feminine men

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by Deleted Account, Oct 29, 2015.

  1. Is it gay if you find a really, really feminine, almost girl-like guy attractive?
     
  2. IGY

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  3. scote73

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  4. fapequalsdeath

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    There's passengers for every ship.
     
  5. IGY

    IGY Guest

    Evidently, it matters to Adam.
     
  6. marcpro

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    Who cares if you live a happy life. Don't let anybody tell you what is right and wrong on love.
     
  7. BlueNotes

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    Being that you are a male and he's a male, then yea it's homosexual.
    It's no big deal though.
    Unless it's a big deal to you then I don't know what to tell you.
    It is what it is bruh
     
  8. zero01

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    I know what's happening here...

    If this attraction is the exception to the rule (in other words, if you feel attracted to women 90% [or more] of the time), then don't worry, you are straight..

    If you feel exclusively attracted to other men (in other words, if you feel attracted to men 90% [or more] of the time) then you might be gay

    If you feel attracted to men and women in 50%-50% or 60%-40% then you might be bi
     
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  9. Sleep aid

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    ask your parents. or school teacher
     
  10. RdrMGK69

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    As a gay man I'd like to chime in here. Sexuality be it gay str8 or bi is not just physical. There are heterosexual men that have sex with men for kink and just the thrill of taboo. Especially if one pmo to raise that bar. To be gay one must not only be physically attracted but must have the potential to be emotionallyand romantically attracted as,well. There are str8 men that like trans girls but who are not attracted to any variations of male physique. U can't say they are gay Abe u can't say they are bi bc they do not like men that look like men. There are theories why some are attracted to trans women. Some hetro men are into femme men for a variety of reasons as,well. Ultimately only the individual can say if they are gsy or bi
     
  11. bomonti

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    If you are looking for femininity, I dont think you are gay. It's probably just one step further than transsexuals, just some more excitement and bigger release of dopamine. So it actually has nothing to do if you are gay or not. Just go hard mode reboot to figure out if it's your fetish by nature or just your overload usage of PMO drove you there. And please do not question yourself until reboot, it only makes things harder. Dont worry, be happy!
     
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  12. melancholy king

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    The truth of the matter is that terms like gay or straight or bi are just blanket terms used for short reference and less so for actual understanding.

    There are so many grey areas that those terms mean essentially nothing... I have slept with multiple so called "straight" guys before, do I think these guys were seriously attracted to other guys? doubtful.

    instead of just saying you are straight or gay or whatever you should instead say more specifics, like do you like to be dominant or submissive? or do you like to have X area played with? what specific things do you find pleasing (whether it be visual, audio, aesthetically, etc.)? I think if you say these things it says FAR more about what your sexuality is than just "gay" or "straight" does.

    What I'm basically saying is that the OP's question "is it gay?" is the wrong question to begin with, instead you should ask yourself whether it is something you enjoy, if so then you might be able to say why and it could even reveal something about yourself.

    Pleasure is good, and sex can be amazing, too much of it whether it be natural or artificial (porn) can be bad and that's why we're here.
     
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  13. Kyoheix

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    It is not gay, it's a trap! ;)
     
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  14. There seems to be some misunderstanding here. I don´t talk about myself. It is a purely hypothetically question.

    Because I could believe there are mostly-straight guys who secretly have to hots for feminine, dainty, sissy girly-boys :D
     

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