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Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Ryszard Mazur, Oct 24, 2017.
I am going thru a rough patch ... but hoping to deliver you a few reports of this week, cheers
Went to Rubik. Had talks with the owner about the painting exhibition in the bar.
Moved to see some magnets with replicas of the paintings and there was a redhead girl in white clothes.
I commented on the size of the magnets and we started a chat.
A few sentences in she asked me of my name!
Nothing particular happened after that.
She was playing table football and I told her to call me for doubles.
Never played and at some point she left. Name: Theodora.
The good thing for the night is that I made friends with more people in the place: Konstantin, Bobev, Lukhi. Another couple that we played table football too.
So in summary, I am preparing the place for my play, it feels awesome to be at home among friends.
There is Super Dull Party in Saturday and I can't wait to go.
Socialising is always a start, love is always meant to exist within a relationship ... a social circle is so good! Even if you're creating it for just one night out good job
Field report nr 13 entitled "I got laid off my ex"
Oh my, oh my,
While some of you might argue this was a mercy fuck, I wanted to remind you there is no such thing as a mercy fuck, even if the girl had that in mind @ some point, you still need to be the man and persistent to the very 'promised land' - the 'full monty'
Allrite, so, I had been buggin my ex to come over for weeks at that point but I tried to be not too pushy, nor too needy, the two things that really made the trick, I think, are: first, I had written only once a week or more often but with distinct spaces of silence in between, now this does two things: first, it allows her to chase you, second, it is one of the strategies to get you out of the friend zone.... Second, .... if I wrote, I pushed for the meet, but not in an obtrusive manner, like, I just ... advertised, invited, no pressure, she said no so many times, but the good thing about inviting is: if she says no, you can reply: 'ok, but the invite still stands' hahahahahaha
Third, I created some of the DHVs by describing or suggesting I talked to a lot of girls (which was true), implying I had sex, even once dropping it, as if casually, in the conversation, to stick in her mind, also, I invited her to the club, making it attractive by saying I was bringing a hot male friend of mine, muscular, good looking and shit, as well as mentioning our female friend, my, dropping hints, indirect implications of my pickups in the back of the club, in the sauna, but right away saying "never mind" implying I am discreet.
Field report nr 13, continued
I had also been dropping little tidbits like a dance with a strange woman, walking up to smokin hot young girls (which I truly had been doing) and all kinds of high value shit hint drops.
So, eventually, yesterday morning, she calls me saying, she is done with whatever shit was on with her internship, and , if the dinner was ready, and I replied: What time? and she said she was free right then and there ....
At this point she is without a boyfriend, but that said, in the community, anything is up for grabs, at any time, if she's talking to you, it's on.
So she came over, nice makeup and sexy jacket. I asked if she wanted tea, no, but first I tried to kiss and hug, she wasn't having it so I kissed her a lot with some force and she coughed it away, like suggesting it was gross, hahahahahahaahahahahaha, suck on this, tough guy!!!! hahahahahahahaahaha
I refused to be phased, I wanted her so much, I knew this could be pulled off, as long as she stayed in the friggin flat.
So she sat at PC and, the opportune thing here is, there is a seat, like, with no backrest so I can sit behind her and fondle her subtly in many ways, which I did, I had also done that a lot in the past.
Well, the day went on, we chatted, laughed, I could tell, it was on, if the girl is lively, telling jokes and creating a party between us ....
So, we went out shopping to get food and wine, she did not object to us having a 'glass of good wine' which they always end up to have more with me, a bottle for both of us, ideal.
So, we came back, had our salads and wine but all the time I went for her mouth on high points (her laughing) or otherwise, for her body, she went stiff, serious and silent, again I remained unphased, God Almighty only knows where I got this strength from ....
Field report nr 13, continued
I want to stress, I had been physical from the get go, on her almost all the time, brushing her hair out of face, trying to kiss neck, caress side of thighs, ass, boobs complimenting hair, eyes, lips, body shape, figure but having casual conversation in between, smelling, touching with face, hugging long for effect, synced breathing, basically anything that sprung to mind, at some point: evolution phase shift, we had had our wine and I, I guess I put her hair delicately away and kissed her neck passionately with short infused kisses, love energy, she got excited and we started kissing and I got her on bed and ... I am sorry, I went cavemen, I ... tried to undress her forcefully, acha, first she got upset, went to the kitchen, wanted to leave, I begged her not to leave .... and in the kitchen, I bent her over and started smacking her ass and she got so hot so I quickly pulled down pants and panties and entered my finger in her pussy, she was writhing and resisting all the time but got wet nonetheless, maybe the struggle excited her, and shocked her, maybe that was the first time in her life a guy was a little rough with her, anyhow she escaped to bathroom faking indignation, locked herself in but I opened skilfully from outside only to find out she was doing a wash to her pussy, she got shocked, I excused myself,
Field report nr 13, continued
At this way I knew she wanted it so we started kissing in the bathroom but I had a little crisis cos I got too cocky and she wasn't getting hot cos I wasn't getting hot thus another red flag, she said no again, so I grabbed her hand and pulled her toward the bed and forced her on bed, we fooled around, she joked a lot, I laughed, a good time.
Later I pulled her on the middle of large bed and she enjoyed the force and the lead and started passionately kissing and it was on again and then I went with my face to her pussy passionately kissing it thru pants and all that struggle resulted in wild mess, me bending her all directions and quickly passionately pulling down pants and pantyhose and panties with her ass in the air and I went for her pussy and dipped and submerged my face in her pussy and licked it and put my tongue inside but in a few seconds she got so pissed she escaped and I guess she wanted to leave, I begged her to stay and not leave me a boor and a ruffian and she calmed down, the I guess I pulled the loving, passionate boyfriend romantic card kissing her like I had feelings for her which I had to large extent really.
I do not remember the rest of the chess game but eventually we kiss and I say I will just unbutton her pants and seeing her excitement I pulled it down saying it is just the pants we are removing and then after a while of passionate grinding and making love thru clothes I say, 'just let me remove the pantyhose and she's says 'but that's it, just the pantyhose and nothing more, not panties' so I say 'okay'
And here comes the unbelievable gambit I employed, we grind and I press my dick against her pussy thru panties but then, all of a sudden: booooooooooooooooooooooooooooom, I pull her panties to the side where the pussy is and take her by surprise, I enter mu DICK quickly, just shove it in the hot, wet pussy, she gasps in excitement and awe and surprise, and start pumping her, making love and she started crying, she imagined she was betraying someone again even tho she was solo that was still her feeling, I suspect she still wanted her first boyfriend she had cheated with on me back in the summer and still had feelings for him, as I later found out, so she says after like a, like 10 seconds, to exit, to stop, so I stop, she got so angry again, I hug her and soothe her and ....
Later she went on top and again I shove her panties to the side and enter and this time she allows, later saying 'that time she forgot herself' so we fuck in abandonment for a while, like old times, cosy names, boyfriend girlfriend caressing, names, passion and the she ends it quickly ... : she said it was enough (guess she did not had feelings for me yet so she did not want to fall in love so quickly thru this sex)
GLORY TIMES, cheers, salute i encourage you Guys to be a CHAMP like me and never surrender during the battle for the PROMISED LAND, keep at it, PEACE
You had your time yesterday it seems!
Great persistence, my admirations! Be inspiration for others. And also put trigger warnings, good thing my self control is on point ;-).
yeah, man, sorry about the adult content hahahaahahaah, it is a field report, have to include some enticing details why we do it : it is AWESOME!!!!!!! it si so worth it, we have a saying in Poland ..... you know ... anything worth anything requires huge work put into it ....
Field report nr 14
Got laid off an older lady.
I will give you the short of it Guys, the evening started when I walked up to a couple of ladies in their forties but still somehow hot ... The first kept looking over smiling at me, like 3 times, so I walk up, thinking 'they are far too old', still, I decided to do it as a warmup. What started as a warmup turned into a kind conversation - total flow - with two ladies who were considerate and deep and kept hitting on me artfully, gave me a drink, a bite to eat, kept me interested and we vibed. After this wonderful time we move to another venue but it is full, so we move to yet another, in as taxi, I kept being physical with both of them, but more with the second one, less attractive, in the cab. Holding hands, hugging, kissing, rubbing. The long story short we end up at a club, they order drinks, kamikaze and the cuter one says openly she cannot have sex today but tells me the other one is down for it so I make a decision to bed the other.
So we walk home, it is not far ... M practically tells D to follow me home "will you walk her home" "yeah yeah, no worries" and she follows me home acting like a little girl, mind you, she is a public speaker, a lecturer at higher education and a hand to a surgeon.
We enter, I play the piano, she hugs me and she goes to the bathroom to wash herself and I go, too, ana ... We go straight to bed and when I undressed her she turns out to have a hot, tanned ass, a clean shaven tight pussy, and asshole to die for to lick and looks generally ... much younger downstairs, I am in heaven, we fuck organically, I lick her everywhere and even go to the bathroom, wash my dick and give her the schlong, which I, by the way, never do normally, what the f*^k hahahaahah, thanks you Guys, cheers
Field nr 15, did not get laid but talked a tonne of women .... part 1
The drinking problem I deem officially ... real. I must have had sth like 14 drinks, unbelievable. But the streak is unbroken, 6 days, with a lay in between, thank heavens.
Have to get this alcohol problem under control in 2018.
Anyhow, the night was shit. There were few hot girls, distanced, I did not have the guts. Was positive they were going to be blowouts. However, after midnight things started to look up.
First, I did a right move asking two gals if I could leave my snacks at their seating. Later, at midnight, I asked if I could sit with them a minute ... and then, if we could make a toast at midnight so we wished ourselves well and knocked our glasses, as is the Polish custom and I said "may all your dreams come true this year" and they asked about my resolutions and they told me about their dreams, one wanted to study Japanese philology and the other was academically ambitious, too ... I hesitated as to if I should kiss them as is the custom for the new year but hesitated too long and had a feeling that they might reject this, I should have gone for this tho, the night might have turned out different, and I might have got a makeout at midnight 2017 to 2018 ....
That's so cool! Nice! Keep going.
Field nr 15, did not get laid but talked a tonne of women .... part 2
By the way, these pheromones I got at the sex shop 'love and desire', double amount of pheromones, really work, I got laid the other day, partly thanks to those, the ladies were all over me plus a young gal of the same town as my ex replied that I smelled very nice, too when addressed as to her nice smell/scent.
So I kinda kept drinking because I was going out of state ... sadly, thank God I had snacks ... What I also notice after 6 days and a lay ... is that I have courage and energy to talk to women and people in general, even tho I am not yet horny enough to project this aura that attracts women, however there was a moment yesterday I am now going to describe when an interesting thing happened. There was this guy, J, who entered and asked if I was sober enough and if he could talk to me. He asked me if there were any ladies inside, I offered help in terms of I'll go inside and check how many there are and how many hot ones and report. He said no need, we entered the club and went to the bar and he offered me whiskey and I was so grateful and he said the time was perfect for pickup and I said he was correct and and I said I will be supporting him approaching as a fan. Lo and behold in under five minutes I C him with a hot one, dancing and I was so happy for him ... that I hit state, he said briefly "A, look, I already fucked her" wow wow wow, bloody wow, and I hit state, smiled and this minute soooooooooooo many ladies appeared around me it was sick .... hahahahahahahahahaha
thank you man where are U?
Field nr 15, did not get laid but talked a tonne of women .... part 3
I must mention chronologically I earlier had talked to this gal of the same town as my Ex-GF ... she recognized me from us having talked a few days back at a beer tavern ... so she hugged me and I had ample opportunity to touch her all over lovingly ... she had a stiff companion of a guy tho who turned out to be a cock block at the end even though I had been sure to have befriended him at the very beginning of the night ... Later, interestingly, we danced a bit, she was drunk and I was too but we danced kinda sexy ana exchanged compliments I talked about earlier ....
Anyhow, at this point that I hit state I was happy and free dancing on the dance floor, a few more random approaches throughout the night: I asked young hot gals at the dancefloor proximity seating if I could leave the snacks with them, they laughed, I insisted ..., second I approached J's hot dancer seeing she was offended I wasn't approaching her, she somehow felt I facilitated his approach, J said he could cede her to me, I said no, hahahahaahahah, later talked to her outside somehow, J took her home, turns out they worked at the very shopping centre we were in, different shops ...
Field nr 15, did not get laid but talked a tonne of women .... part 4
And here we come to the high point of the night, a talk with K. This gal, lemme tell you .... amazing ... Blond, high heels, slender, hot body, hot ridiculous outfit, pretty face, nice freckles, fair eyes, a fine example of DNA.
Anyhow, this is how it went down, as mentioned before, I was on the dancefloor, free, smiling, having hit state and kinda ... danced around and checked out gals. All of them were giving me a cold eye ... after all, I am 41.5 yrs old, somewhat destroyed by alcohol and smokes, supplements and heavy workout sessions since I was 30, plus ... I am kinda big, still 97 kg (I was 104 not long ago), still big in the shoulder and still close to 80 kg sheer muscle mass ... broad shouldered, bald and cocky, gals tend to get scared ....
Anyhow ... K was the first to smile when I checked her out so I offered the hand, as if to greet, they escaped to the loge seating nearby ... I smile and walk in, doing a false time constraint, can I sit here for minute, smiling, which mind you, the last two times proved a trap: gals chased me away after a while saying the time was up hahahahahahahahahahah ....
I ask her name and her friend, she's O and we proceed talking and oh boy was it amazing, I find out she's 28 and a beautician herself and the way I found out is I pointed out her pretty fingernails and she said she did them herself and I go: they nice and different colour, different fingernails ... and I got to touch her fingers for a few seconds and watch her nails and worship ahahahahahaha and oh boy her hands were hot ... ...., later we talk and I find out she's K and has a boy, 4 yrs old, I disclose a have an 11 yr old daughter A, ana compliment her she does not look like a milf, ana I kinda back off from this jokingly and the gals lough at this hysterically,
for long ... so the fun vibe is established ... so I proceed , thank the Lord I was able to, to misinterpret all she says (inadvertently) cause it is loud and she laughs repeatedly, this, by the way, I learned from one of the hot Polish adult movies, as well as from the American pickup community: when you misinterpret almost all she says it is so hysterical to the gals you should by all means do it, but, do not force it, it will sorta ... come to you ... this long laughter is so sweet I kinda laugh with her (instead of bloody escalating) but later I check myself as I go in real time and escalate a bit touching her forearm and fingers a bit.
She does not want to move to the bar or the seating in the back, what the fuck, they say they kinda need to leave cos they're tired, I take the messenger but the next morning it turns out I cannot find her on fb, a bummer but still, .... the best interaction of the night, I laughed my ass off with a hot gal. cheers, that's all folks, salute ...
You know, the false time constraint just buys you first 15 seconds, then opener question buys you another 30 seconds and DHV buys you the next minute. (if remember the theory correctly)
My point is that when you are interesting enough they will not ask you to leave.
Not that I have tried that at all.
Interesting, my body type is the opposite, 72kg 188cm, thick short hair, blue eyes.
Possibly ... the big question is ... how to be attractive, it's been now boggling my mind for years ...
1. The mystery methon - find the book.
2. Not everyone must like you, just find the girls that vibe with you. And you already do this very well, so keep going.
3. As your outlook is utterly masculine, the utterly feminine women will like you the most. The opposite attracts.
thank you, man, the utmost feminine appeals to me the most, these are really good advice