My wife and I are terrible at fighting. We are both conflict averse, and tend to go along just to get along. Even more, I tend to bend over backwards to fulfill her every wish and whim (partly because I have an awful case of the "nice guy syndrome"). Which means when we rarely do have a fight it can be a dozy. That being said, I have been mulling over something for a while now - the next time we have a passionate disagreement, how will it go? I feel like now that she knows about my past with PMO that she has a perpetual trump card - if she mentions it, she will win; and if I think about it, I will let her win. Has anybody had any experience with this?