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Find your motivation! [700 days+]

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Sufian T., Nov 10, 2018.

What motivates you?

  1. Money

    25 vote(s)
    71.4%
  2. Girls

    13 vote(s)
    37.1%
  3. Happy married life in the future

    21 vote(s)
    60.0%
Multiple votes are allowed.
  1. Sufian T.

    Sufian T. Fapstronaut

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    We all have some days when we feel down and while on this journey you might have more than enough because of your habit being changed or deleted. It’s completely normal; most people quit at this time because they can’t handle the negative thoughts and get frustrated. The point is not to get frustrated, keep your goal to never lose motivation. Always keep your purpose in your mind, and make somethings into a habit such as waking up every morning and counting your blessings and appreciating for the last day for fighting against porn and masturbation. Don’t think how will you not watch porn and masturbate for the rest of your life. Just do it today and repeat. Listen to a motivational speech in the first 20-minutes after you wake up.

    Look for someone already successful in quitting this habit and make them your role model. Pick their habits and see what they did to overcome their addiction.

    Look at yourself in the long-term. Are you there where you want to be yet? If not, then keep going until you are there. Ask yourself today if I quit:

    What will I get tomorrow and what regrets would I have?

    External motivation will not be enough if you don’t have internal motivation and a drive to succeed, no matter how much motivational quotes you read or how many motivation videos you watch. Appreciate yourself for what you are doing because it’s not an easy thing. You will notice enormous changes in your levels of motivation once you recover. You will be crazy about your goals and you will do whatever it takes to achieve them. Success is what drives me crazy and it’ll do the same for you too.

    If you have a strong purpose then you can turn it in to your motivation and never quit because you don’t want to lie to yourself. And if you do lie, your self-esteem goes down and it breaks the cycle which makes you fall down and feel even worse.


    "Change your life today. Don’t gamble on the future, act now, without delay."
     
  2. control your life

    control your life Distinguished Fapstronaut

    thanks for the tips !! motivational stuff !!
     
    Shoto Jaya and Protagonist like this.

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