First Experience after curing Ed?

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  1. abetterme99

    abetterme99 Fapstronaut

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    21 yr old: ive always performed well in bed,Last time I had sex was with my ex gf a few months ago and always could stay hard for hours, but since then I've developed addiction to mastubation. have noticed myself since being single Ive developed Ed I can't get erections unless I really physically stimulate myself .. I spent a lot of time on chatrooms and I think that helped induce it. Im on day 7 and the only progress Ive had is the return of my morning wood . I'm worried about my progress. My main question is that am I doomed to have a few bad sexual experiences when I get back on the dating scene? Or is there a possibility for me to cure my ed without the need to gradually rewire with a women . Ideally I want my next sexual experience to involve no erection trouble?

    Please,Any support or help will be appreciated! My breakup caused me a great depression and then when this began a few months later i just fell into a dark hole in my head .
     
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  2. bfdet

    bfdet Fapstronaut

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    continue your journey. You are already seeing positive results and you'll experience more positive results by avoiding PMO.


    One thing that often accompanies PMO is "edging". If you've been doing "edging", stop it now.

    Short version: DO NOT EDGE ! EVER !

    Edging is really bad. Edging trains your body and mind to expect and to need prolonged, often very intense, stimulation in order to reach O. That level of mental and physical stimulation doesn't happen with PIV relations. Guess what: when you attempt PIV, your body and mind don't receive the kind of stimulation it needs to O, instead your body responds with PIED and DE. Not good.

    Edging does NOTHING good, so stop. Easier said than done, but it is certainly NOT impossible and very much worth every bit of effort required to stop this damaging activity.

    For more information about edging, have a look at:

    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...masturbate-edge-or-watch-porn-without-orgasm/

    DO NOT EDGE. EVER !

    One day at a time is how we all succeed
     
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  3. abetterme99

    abetterme99 Fapstronaut

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    If I've been damaged by edging is it likely I'll cure it within the 90 days by avoiding all PMO and edging completely or have I fucked myself up very badly over the last year?
     
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    There is no way of knowing to what extend healing will happen as everybody is different. BUT one thing is certain: during 90 days you will experience at least some healing and undoing of the damages - both physical and mental - that edging causes. There is NOTHING good that results from edging (I'm aware of a possible exception if done under therapist guidance for PE) so just stop edging and start healing.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed
     
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