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[Dylan7175]

I’m gonna be honest here. I masturbate around 7 times a week always to hardcore porn. I wanna stop so bad but i keep getting dragged back in after only a week of quitting. I met a wonderful girl and I want a future with her but I have trouble having sex with her because of all the porn. She knows that I masturbate a lot but she hasn’t really offered any help in quitting. I’m just terrified that I’m never gonna get over the fetishes I developed from my addiction and they will ultimately ruin my relationship.

 

[Roady]

Hi @Dylan7175
Thanks for being here. And open up a bit. Welcome!
Leaving an addictive habit is not an easy job, but .... the truth will make you free.
So... get some knowledge, read stories, let yourself encouraged by others.
You are not alone in this.So connecting to others is a clue as well!
And don't forget to create a journal.
Writing about your daily stuff may really help you to process the issues.
Good luck!

 

[Deleted Account]

Hey Dylan. Welcome! I'm glad you have joined us.

I’m just terrified that I’m never gonna get over the fetishes I developed from my addiction and they will ultimately ruin my relationship.

First of all, just let go of that fear buddy! You ARE going to get over the fetishes and your relationship is not ruined if you don't want it to be. A relationship is not only about sex, even if sex is a very important part of it. You are here, which says to me that you want to get over your PMO shit. If you are determined and don't give up no matter how many times you fall back (yes, you will but you just jump straight up on the wagon again, and again, and again, ...), you will reach your goal. And there are many, many of us here in the same wagon to help you on your journey. Good luck!

 

[Protagoras]

I hope you find the help you need here. Welcome. Here are some thing working for me.